She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Got privilege?Who here can deny there is white privilege? Why of course there is.
As a white, you have the privilege of paying countless trillions in taxes to support black, brown and yellow people who hate you.
As a white, you have the privilege of having your children beaten up and intimidated by NAMs every day in school, and a school system that turns a blind eye to it.
As a white, you have the privilege of having your mothers, sisters and daughters raped by black and brown men by the thousands, and Feminism Inc. utters not a sound.
As a white person you have the privilege of having your nations overrun by the refuse of the world, and you also have the privilege of never being able to utter a word of complaint about it.
As a white in South Africa and Rhodesia you have the privilege of being physically exterminated in an ongoing genocide.
As a white, you have the privilege of being blamed for every evil in the world.
As a white, you have the privilege of being called the “cancer of human history” by a prominent Jewish intellectual who is praised for her bravery.
As a white, you have the privilege of being systematically discriminated against in hiring, in school admissions, and in government benefits.
As a white, you have the privilege of sitting at the end of the line for immigration into historically white nations, while blacks, browns and yellows step ahead of you.
As a white, you have the privilege of having your culture endlessly mocked,
derided, insulted and demonized by the dominate entertainment and news media.
As a white, you have the privilege of making blacks, browns and yellows feel better about themselves by having your white historical heroes ignored or demonized by the educational and media establishments.
All this is yours, white people! All this and more! Now how dare you tell me you’re not privileged - Peterike
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Sherman was fined by NFL today for taunting so the league recognizes did do something wrong. If Sherman lost the game do you think he would have been going up to players saying "good game" wanting to shake their hand?Fatal Jay said:^
Malice, you actually have a point they have blended nfl players, rappers, and nba players all into one boiling pot which is sad.
I listen to rap, but I listen to conscience rap. Which means none of these guys are rapping about being thugs they are rapping against it.
Yet the funny thing is thugs and gangsters originated with guys like baby face nelson, john dillenger, bonnie and clyde etc.
People talking about this guy didn't show class, if you want to see class then go watch figure skating or something not football.
I was waiting for someone to state the obvious. Who calls him a "misguided kid"? Straight men generally just call him a faggot and or wigger.zekko said:To be fair, I've never heard anyone describe Justin Bieber as a misguided kid.
I'm not even going to ask how you found that picture.( . )( . ) said:I was waiting for someone to state the obvious. Who calls him a "misguided kid"? Straight men generally just call him what he is, a faggot and wigger.
http://au.eonline.com/eol_images/Entire_Site/2013928/rs_600x600-131028105743-600-justin-bieber.ls.102813_copy.jpg
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I have never heard anyone call Sherman a thug either. Maybe he just made it up? Fatal Jay please post a link to someone of signifigance calling Sherman a thug. Random people on the internet don't count. Also I cannot stand Bieber, I wouldn't shed a tear if he wrapped that lamborghini around a tree like the Fast and Furious guy. His music is garbage.zekko said:To be fair, I've never heard anyone describe Justin Bieber as a misguided kid. I'm not saying he hasn't been described as such in the media or whatever, but I've never heard it.
The only person I've heard call Richard Sherman a thug was himself in an interview - something along the lines of "They think I'm a thug".
And finally, I would say Justin Bieber is a thug wannabe.
My favorite rapper is Canibus. If more rap was like this it would be a different story. Here's a sample.Fatal Jay said:^
I listen to rap, but I listen to conscience rap. Which means none of these guys are rapping about being thugs they are rapping against it.
I got it from my Bronycon 2013 trip. It's the place to be seen for culturally destroyed, confused and stressed out white neckbeards.BeDJ said:I'm not even going to ask how you found that picture.
Music? He has music?Malice said:Also I cannot stand Bieber, I wouldn't shed a tear if he wrapped that lamborghini around a tree like the Fast and Furious guy. His music is garbage.
I'm a Canibus fan myself. How about this one?Malice said:My favorite rapper is Canibus. If more rap was like this it would be a different story. Here's a sample.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuXrT03lyGo
I don't know if I'm pointing out the obvious here, but you do realize, his music isn't geared towards 35 year old males.Malice said:His music is garbage.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That's a good one. It's a shame intellectuals like Canibus sell hardly any CD's but the garbage rap sells millions. 90% of the population are dumbed down morons.TyTe`EyEz said:
The way I understood it, after his sideline interview, the "internet" used the word "thug" to describe him.Malice said:I have never heard anyone call Sherman a thug either. Maybe he just made it up?
Give me a break. He is talking about random people on the internet? This guy is like a female attention wh0re. I am really rooting for Denver now.taiyuu_otoko said:The way I understood it, after his sideline interview, the "internet" used the word "thug" to describe him.
I'm pretty sure you could find a lot worse things said about bieber online than "thug."
Comparing the "thug" label to a "misguided kid" label isn't exactly apples and oranges.
In fact, I'm sure there are PLENTY of internet users who OPENLY CALL FOR THE DEATH of beiber, and I doubt you'd find the same amount of overwhelming "hate" for Sherman.
TyTe`EyEz said:
Malice said:How about this one?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5PrnxApprvs
Canibus is the greatest lyricist who ever lived. I don't need to hear anything else. He locked it down. Who is better than this?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.