Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Got privilege?Who here can deny there is white privilege? Why of course there is.
As a white, you have the privilege of paying countless trillions in taxes to support black, brown and yellow people who hate you.
As a white, you have the privilege of having your children beaten up and intimidated by NAMs every day in school, and a school system that turns a blind eye to it.
As a white, you have the privilege of having your mothers, sisters and daughters raped by black and brown men by the thousands, and Feminism Inc. utters not a sound.
As a white person you have the privilege of having your nations overrun by the refuse of the world, and you also have the privilege of never being able to utter a word of complaint about it.
As a white in South Africa and Rhodesia you have the privilege of being physically exterminated in an ongoing genocide.
As a white, you have the privilege of being blamed for every evil in the world.
As a white, you have the privilege of being called the “cancer of human history” by a prominent Jewish intellectual who is praised for her bravery.
As a white, you have the privilege of being systematically discriminated against in hiring, in school admissions, and in government benefits.
As a white, you have the privilege of sitting at the end of the line for immigration into historically white nations, while blacks, browns and yellows step ahead of you.
As a white, you have the privilege of having your culture endlessly mocked,
derided, insulted and demonized by the dominate entertainment and news media.
As a white, you have the privilege of making blacks, browns and yellows feel better about themselves by having your white historical heroes ignored or demonized by the educational and media establishments.
All this is yours, white people! All this and more! Now how dare you tell me you’re not privileged - Peterike
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sherman was fined by NFL today for taunting so the league recognizes did do something wrong. If Sherman lost the game do you think he would have been going up to players saying "good game" wanting to shake their hand?Fatal Jay said:^
Malice, you actually have a point they have blended nfl players, rappers, and nba players all into one boiling pot which is sad.
I listen to rap, but I listen to conscience rap. Which means none of these guys are rapping about being thugs they are rapping against it.
Yet the funny thing is thugs and gangsters originated with guys like baby face nelson, john dillenger, bonnie and clyde etc.
People talking about this guy didn't show class, if you want to see class then go watch figure skating or something not football.
I was waiting for someone to state the obvious. Who calls him a "misguided kid"? Straight men generally just call him a faggot and or wigger.zekko said:To be fair, I've never heard anyone describe Justin Bieber as a misguided kid.
I'm not even going to ask how you found that picture.( . )( . ) said:I was waiting for someone to state the obvious. Who calls him a "misguided kid"? Straight men generally just call him what he is, a faggot and wigger.
http://au.eonline.com/eol_images/Entire_Site/2013928/rs_600x600-131028105743-600-justin-bieber.ls.102813_copy.jpg
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I have never heard anyone call Sherman a thug either. Maybe he just made it up? Fatal Jay please post a link to someone of signifigance calling Sherman a thug. Random people on the internet don't count. Also I cannot stand Bieber, I wouldn't shed a tear if he wrapped that lamborghini around a tree like the Fast and Furious guy. His music is garbage.zekko said:To be fair, I've never heard anyone describe Justin Bieber as a misguided kid. I'm not saying he hasn't been described as such in the media or whatever, but I've never heard it.
The only person I've heard call Richard Sherman a thug was himself in an interview - something along the lines of "They think I'm a thug".
And finally, I would say Justin Bieber is a thug wannabe.
My favorite rapper is Canibus. If more rap was like this it would be a different story. Here's a sample.Fatal Jay said:^
I listen to rap, but I listen to conscience rap. Which means none of these guys are rapping about being thugs they are rapping against it.
I got it from my Bronycon 2013 trip. It's the place to be seen for culturally destroyed, confused and stressed out white neckbeards.BeDJ said:I'm not even going to ask how you found that picture.
Music? He has music?Malice said:Also I cannot stand Bieber, I wouldn't shed a tear if he wrapped that lamborghini around a tree like the Fast and Furious guy. His music is garbage.
I'm a Canibus fan myself. How about this one?Malice said:My favorite rapper is Canibus. If more rap was like this it would be a different story. Here's a sample.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuXrT03lyGo
I don't know if I'm pointing out the obvious here, but you do realize, his music isn't geared towards 35 year old males.Malice said:His music is garbage.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That's a good one. It's a shame intellectuals like Canibus sell hardly any CD's but the garbage rap sells millions. 90% of the population are dumbed down morons.TyTe`EyEz said:
The way I understood it, after his sideline interview, the "internet" used the word "thug" to describe him.Malice said:I have never heard anyone call Sherman a thug either. Maybe he just made it up?
Give me a break. He is talking about random people on the internet? This guy is like a female attention wh0re. I am really rooting for Denver now.taiyuu_otoko said:The way I understood it, after his sideline interview, the "internet" used the word "thug" to describe him.
I'm pretty sure you could find a lot worse things said about bieber online than "thug."
Comparing the "thug" label to a "misguided kid" label isn't exactly apples and oranges.
In fact, I'm sure there are PLENTY of internet users who OPENLY CALL FOR THE DEATH of beiber, and I doubt you'd find the same amount of overwhelming "hate" for Sherman.
TyTe`EyEz said:
Malice said:How about this one?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5PrnxApprvs
Canibus is the greatest lyricist who ever lived. I don't need to hear anything else. He locked it down. Who is better than this?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.