darksprezzatura
Master Don Juan
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The vocal vow of silence is a great tool to emphasise focus on my body language and be more aware of my surroundings and people.Dark mate, that is cool. What inspired you to be doing this?
One of my mates, he went to a silent yoga retreat. The sec the vow of silence initiates, he is hit by "lightning bolts" of attraction like Michael Corlone in Sicily in the movie God father II walking up the mountain seeing Apolonia. He was enamored and apparently she was too. After the week retreat, he was forced to approach. Lulz bitter sweet outcome. She didn't speak English. They still had some fun.
I heard RSD Tyler did this on a boot camp in LA. It wasn't Tyler who mentioned it. It was Elliot Hulse who was jaw dropped by his approach. Good on you. I think a man can approach, be man to woman and step to her with not a spoken word to pickup.
I shared with another mate a outing with a wing. We got girls. We pulled. We left and went to go get more girls at the club. My mate said that he was taught by his father to focus on purpose. Twenty years later, he recognized how valuable and all encompassing that message was. He went onto say, he rather not bust a nut, even turn down the gf, and go lift, pray and or meditate. He once went on a abstinence pledge. Full year. No sex. All he did was lift, meditate, eat, sleep, and pray. I never saw a person get more gains physically and aesthetics not on gear.
There's something to be said about this path. It comes as I am coming of exploring consciousness, tripping, and a deep dive into my own meditative practice. I recognize that ability to pursue VS AA/low T/shook. There's a difference in can and have gone through the fire only to pick your way forward.
I am vocal about my thoughts on monogamy and marriage. If I were to ever change my mind, I would have gone through the fire and back. A man can make a informed decision. I highly recommend it should a man dare choose to be domesticated.
Instead of approaching, today I went to the gym and just motioned a girl to come towards me with my hand.
I obviously didn't speak.
She just walked to me and without saying a word I just corrected her deadlift posture by enacting.
No digits acquired, but the message was clear to me.
Ice can be broken and compliance generated without words.
You and your mate got it right. Purpose is key. It's not an excuse for not approaching either.
Your posts on meditation rung a bell with me.
I'm using this way to meditate. Try it. It's peaceful.
My only reason for monogamy would be children. I don't want any. Folks don't realise how expensive it is. Fatigue, lack of sleep. People like other people's kids. Think fomo. It's societal conditioning.
There's a time for something like this. For me, maybe early 40s.