"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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just what you needed....

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This is a response to the ever increasing number of us trying to meet women through the computer/cell in any way shape or form and those of us stuck this website asking questions of what to do. ( and it's your lucky day cause I would have never done this unless we had a two-hour delay. I love teaching. :) )

First I am in no way a master DJ/PUA. (Just wanted to get that out of the way.) I've made my mistakes and keep making them everyday until one day I'll find that certain woman. There's no game between you and her. She doesn't ever really know you yet.The only game is between you and yourself. Do I pick up women all the time? NO! (p.s. That's why I chose my screen name, I'm being very picky.) Do I sit on the computer looking for women? NO! I get my a$$ out there and make mistakes. I don't sit in my comfort zone trying to pull them in through a computer screen by chat, or trying to figure out what to do next. Why do you think these women are on the computer in the first place? I'll tell you...

BECAUSE YOUR SORRY A$$ IS NOT OUT THERE TRYING TO MEET THEM! THAT'S WHY.

So now you know. I've made plenty of mistakes and you know what? My friends and family that witness them and myself laugh our a$$es off talking about what I did wrong. :laugh: And each time I say to myself, "At lest I grabbed my balls and tried." Hell even some of these HB's laugh their a$$es off. And why not? It was funny. I've even had them approach me and talk about it. Then I calmly say, "I've been laughing at that all week. Would you mind if I try again?" :cool:

So I have 3 pieces of advice:
1. (I already gave you this one. If you missed it I can't help you.)
2. When you do get out there don't try sooooo hard to meet women. Through observation of family, friends, and total strangers trying to do a pick-up, I've seen eagerness kill the deal. Relax, be a little funny and you won't scare her away.
3. There's no game. Talk to them all. Get comfortable in your own skin, so you can finally get off the computer. Read the stuff on this site and go start using it. In response to Casino's post: I started with Pook and MotU and Anti-Dump.

So while you're typing away next time chatting with that lovely lady (actually how do you know, this is a totally different topic) or debating what to do with the one you're stuck on, I want you to remember this: I just got her number, and have started on the next chick. So what are you going to do about that!

And yes this has all been said before, but the funny thing is I'm not reading it this time. I'm telling it to you...lol :crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I agree sitting here complaining isn't going to get anyone anywhere....
The only way this stuff works is if you get out there and practice.

I also don't really approve of the whole internet dating thing....what, are people that lazy????
 

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yea, its like shopping for groceries online. damn, thats lazy....

"oh, i'll grab some bread, some milk, update my dating profile, check out if i won that auction, and blah blah blah...."

i think the information super-highway is turning into something beyond what we ever imagined: a death trap.

but hey, i laugh at danger. HAHAHA!!!

its about self control. u need to know when to get off. and just cuz u CAN do it online, doesnt mean u SHOULD. nothing can replace good ol' human interaction.
 
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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
nothing can replace good ol' human interaction.
AMEN!! I couldn't have said it better myself...

ADKdj
 
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