"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Just wanted to share some more ****y+funny (field tested)
- Thread starter smooth666
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
squirrels
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You did a great job with your thread in the tips section. You can link me if you like and of course use the lines with chicks
However I see my thread as sth like a personal "c+f journal". I will add to it from time to time and see how my c+f develops.
Take care!
here is the link to your thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=62763&highlight=****y+funny
Matt Rogers
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Keep the examples coming smooth666
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
octane_orphan
Don Juan
Me : I was thinking about you in the car this morning
Her: Ahh yeah <curious>
Me: Yeah my air con has started making the really annoying noise <has to be said with a smile>
ok this may be a neghit but I will let the forum acedemics slate me for that one... all i know it got the desired responce ...