"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
it's as is, take it or leave it.yourunintended said:
we keep welcoming you guys
yourunintended
Don Juan
I was merely jesting PK, this is quite the interesting place, I think I can adjust
ThunderMaverick
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YAWY! !!!
I repped both oth them. Is that a crime? Sade's "is it a crime" I like that song. No i'm not gay.
I must go to bed.
yourunintended
Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
yourunintended
Don Juan
Did you guys really only go there to up your advertising revenue? Have we been used?
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Yeah no need to repeat yourself, because I read and remember every single detail from every post on this forumyourunintended said:I have no problem with saying who I am. In fact, I already have. I just dislike repeating myself. Hence the change in name
.Gee you only have to wait a month? I wonder who gets to stay there long enough a "regular" memeber.
Yeah that sounds like a good idea I guess but I couldn't get that feature to work over there either for some reason.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
FoolsCause
Don Juan
Howdy doody.Commando said:
Why not? Then we can go over there and check out your hot girl fake avatar pic j/k sort of.HOMBRE said:
I think someone quoted that chick with the girl taking a bath avatar and changed the name to, "GirlTakingaBathbutNotHer" or something. Funny :crackup: .
penkitten
Master Don Juan
which one is storyrider?Nighthawk said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I don't have an avvy on there at the moment but my profile pic is real.ketostix said:
I don't want to say who I am yet. And it has nothing to do with LS finding out. What I say here has nothing to do with anything over there. Besides, I get in trouble over there all the time. I'm used to it by now.
That's funny about the girtaking the bath thing. Maybe I'll change my name to NotDoucheHere.