"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Just wanted to say hi!
- Thread starter Lishy
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
it's as is, take it or leave it.yourunintended said:
we keep welcoming you guys
yourunintended
Don Juan
I was merely jesting PK, this is quite the interesting place, I think I can adjust
ThunderMaverick
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YAWY! !!!
I repped both oth them. Is that a crime? Sade's "is it a crime" I like that song. No i'm not gay.
I must go to bed.
yourunintended
Don Juan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
yourunintended
Don Juan
Did you guys really only go there to up your advertising revenue? Have we been used?
:crackup:
Yeah no need to repeat yourself, because I read and remember every single detail from every post on this forumyourunintended said:I have no problem with saying who I am. In fact, I already have. I just dislike repeating myself. Hence the change in name
.Gee you only have to wait a month? I wonder who gets to stay there long enough a "regular" memeber.
Yeah that sounds like a good idea I guess but I couldn't get that feature to work over there either for some reason.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
FoolsCause
Don Juan
Howdy doody.Commando said:
Why not? Then we can go over there and check out your hot girl fake avatar pic j/k sort of.HOMBRE said:
I think someone quoted that chick with the girl taking a bath avatar and changed the name to, "GirlTakingaBathbutNotHer" or something. Funny :crackup: .
penkitten
Master Don Juan
which one is storyrider?Nighthawk said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I don't have an avvy on there at the moment but my profile pic is real.ketostix said:
I don't want to say who I am yet. And it has nothing to do with LS finding out. What I say here has nothing to do with anything over there. Besides, I get in trouble over there all the time. I'm used to it by now.
That's funny about the girtaking the bath thing. Maybe I'll change my name to NotDoucheHere.