"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you call offering to give women half our stuff a price then I guess so, sure.
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Nope. That's not what I meant....but carry on in your delusion.

Anyway, what kind of man are you if you can't end up with most of your "stuff" at the end of it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Welcome to sosuave.

I was also over there for a brief time under the name Quiksilver ca.

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We tolerate many different perspectives on this forum, so don't be afraid to voice your opinion.

One thing we do not tolerate, and try to crack down on, is people who are not here to actively learn and improve their lives. For this reason we ask you to please read some of the material that this site is based around(Sosuave.com, The DJ Bible, and the Tips forum) before making too many posts.
 
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Lishy said:
So can I ask for advice or is it only for men?
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As a male I can only give you my perspective and what I would do in a situation. Can we really say that males and females react the same most of the time when it comes to situations involving the opposite sex?

I thinks not.

It helps to see the other side's perspective no doubt!
 
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Lishy, just wanted to sneak over here from LS and say hi! Think I'll lurk around for a bit... :cool:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Burrito Supreme said:
Exactly, so you may now stop with the preaching over there.
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Well they've stopped me from posting with their draconian and ridiculous one-sided modding, but why exactly should anyone be told by you which sites they can post at?
 
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Well I was nice enough to use my username on LS (and no it wasn't because I was too dumb to realize I would blow my cover). Is it too much to ask for the LSers to identify themselves by their LS usernames?

You know what I think, since SoSuave doesn't ban people for just being on LS and you guys feel free to admit you're from there anyway, I think you LS people are hiding your LS usernames because you know your forum is intolerant. You're afraid of what will happen to you there if you reveal your LS ids here. What say you to that?
 
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I like the fact that I can have two web identities, and get two different perspectives on my threads without one being traceable to the other. That's why I prefer not to reveal my LS identity. If it ever becomes relevant, I won't hesitate to do so.
 
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Nighthawk said:
Well they've stopped me from posting with their draconian and ridiculous one-sided modding, but why exactly should anyone be told by you which sites they can post at?
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Yeah, you notice the mods over there never answer to anyone like they do here. They hide and continually push the ban and delete button like a bunch of communist China internet censors that they are :up: .
 
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The tin man said:
I like the fact that I can have two web identities, and get two different perspectives on my threads without one being traceable to the other. That's why I prefer not to reveal my LS identity. If it ever becomes relevant, I won't hesitate to do so.
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Exactly you don't want to be traced to your identity on LS because you know they are intolerant at LS. That's what I said.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Also at LS, you can't pm, it's very hard to copy and paste post, you can't even edit typos in your post outside of a very short time frame. There's no freedom of ideas either. There's no freedom at all there.
 
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ketostix said:
Exactly you don't want to be traced to your identity on LS because you know they are intolerant at LS. That's what I said.
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No, I feel rather free at LS, as I have earned respect and privileges there.

I just want to take advantage of what both forums have to offer and feel like I will reap the most benefits by having two identities.

You don't like LS and that's your perogative but don't assume you know my motives better then me.
 
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and feel like I will reap the most benefits by having two identities.
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Why would that be? Do whatever you want, but the real and main reason why LS users hide their identities on here is clear to me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HOMBRE said:
Nope. That's not what I meant....but carry on in your delusion.

Anyway, what kind of man are you if you can't end up with most of your "stuff" at the end of it?
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The kind that makes a shitload of money.
 
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bigjohnson said:
The kind that makes a shitload of money.
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That's irrelevant. How smart can you be if you can make boatloads of money but you can't hold on to it? Not too "manly"...and even less smart.
 
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This is my LS name btw!

I like the look of this site and will be frequenting here on a regular!

Cheers guys!

Ps .... Tin man, do I know you?
 
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ketostix said:
Well I was nice enough to use my username on LS (and no it wasn't because I was too dumb to realize I would blow my cover). Is it too much to ask for the LSers to identify themselves by their LS usernames?

You know what I think, since SoSuave doesn't ban people for just being on LS and you guys feel free to admit you're from there anyway, I think you LS people are hiding your LS usernames because you know your forum is intolerant. You're afraid of what will happen to you there if you reveal your LS ids here. What say you to that?
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I have no problem with saying who I am. In fact, I already have. I just dislike repeating myself. Hence the change in name :p And why I won't repeat who I am ;)

Also at LS, you can't pm, it's very hard to copy and paste post, you can't even edit typos in your post outside of a very short time frame. There's no freedom of ideas either. There's no freedom at all there.
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You can PM. As a regular member and a supporting. You guys just weren't there long enough to get past the required month for it to be activated. I am missing the multi-quote system over there, you guys should really look into that if I'm going to continue here. :crackup:

It's weird seeing LSers here. Wonder who HOMBRE could possibly be...;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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