"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HOMBRE

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bigjohnson said:
If you call offering to give women half our stuff a price then I guess so, sure.
Nope. That's not what I meant....but carry on in your delusion.

Anyway, what kind of man are you if you can't end up with most of your "stuff" at the end of it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Welcome to sosuave.

I was also over there for a brief time under the name Quiksilver ca.

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We tolerate many different perspectives on this forum, so don't be afraid to voice your opinion.

One thing we do not tolerate, and try to crack down on, is people who are not here to actively learn and improve their lives. For this reason we ask you to please read some of the material that this site is based around(Sosuave.com, The DJ Bible, and the Tips forum) before making too many posts.
 

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Lishy said:
So can I ask for advice or is it only for men?

As a male I can only give you my perspective and what I would do in a situation. Can we really say that males and females react the same most of the time when it comes to situations involving the opposite sex?

I thinks not.

It helps to see the other side's perspective no doubt!
 

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Lishy, just wanted to sneak over here from LS and say hi! Think I'll lurk around for a bit... :cool:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Burrito Supreme said:
Exactly, so you may now stop with the preaching over there.
Well they've stopped me from posting with their draconian and ridiculous one-sided modding, but why exactly should anyone be told by you which sites they can post at?
 

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Well I was nice enough to use my username on LS (and no it wasn't because I was too dumb to realize I would blow my cover). Is it too much to ask for the LSers to identify themselves by their LS usernames?

You know what I think, since SoSuave doesn't ban people for just being on LS and you guys feel free to admit you're from there anyway, I think you LS people are hiding your LS usernames because you know your forum is intolerant. You're afraid of what will happen to you there if you reveal your LS ids here. What say you to that?
 

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I like the fact that I can have two web identities, and get two different perspectives on my threads without one being traceable to the other. That's why I prefer not to reveal my LS identity. If it ever becomes relevant, I won't hesitate to do so.
 

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Nighthawk said:
Well they've stopped me from posting with their draconian and ridiculous one-sided modding, but why exactly should anyone be told by you which sites they can post at?

Yeah, you notice the mods over there never answer to anyone like they do here. They hide and continually push the ban and delete button like a bunch of communist China internet censors that they are :up: .
 

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The tin man said:
I like the fact that I can have two web identities, and get two different perspectives on my threads without one being traceable to the other. That's why I prefer not to reveal my LS identity. If it ever becomes relevant, I won't hesitate to do so.

Exactly you don't want to be traced to your identity on LS because you know they are intolerant at LS. That's what I said.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Also at LS, you can't pm, it's very hard to copy and paste post, you can't even edit typos in your post outside of a very short time frame. There's no freedom of ideas either. There's no freedom at all there.
 

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ketostix said:
Exactly you don't want to be traced to your identity on LS because you know they are intolerant at LS. That's what I said.
No, I feel rather free at LS, as I have earned respect and privileges there.

I just want to take advantage of what both forums have to offer and feel like I will reap the most benefits by having two identities.

You don't like LS and that's your perogative but don't assume you know my motives better then me.
 

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The tin man said:
and feel like I will reap the most benefits by having two identities.
Why would that be? Do whatever you want, but the real and main reason why LS users hide their identities on here is clear to me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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HOMBRE said:
Nope. That's not what I meant....but carry on in your delusion.

Anyway, what kind of man are you if you can't end up with most of your "stuff" at the end of it?
The kind that makes a shitload of money.
 

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bigjohnson said:
The kind that makes a shitload of money.
That's irrelevant. How smart can you be if you can make boatloads of money but you can't hold on to it? Not too "manly"...and even less smart.
 

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This is my LS name btw!

I like the look of this site and will be frequenting here on a regular!

Cheers guys!

Ps .... Tin man, do I know you?
 

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ketostix said:
Well I was nice enough to use my username on LS (and no it wasn't because I was too dumb to realize I would blow my cover). Is it too much to ask for the LSers to identify themselves by their LS usernames?

You know what I think, since SoSuave doesn't ban people for just being on LS and you guys feel free to admit you're from there anyway, I think you LS people are hiding your LS usernames because you know your forum is intolerant. You're afraid of what will happen to you there if you reveal your LS ids here. What say you to that?
I have no problem with saying who I am. In fact, I already have. I just dislike repeating myself. Hence the change in name :p And why I won't repeat who I am ;)

Also at LS, you can't pm, it's very hard to copy and paste post, you can't even edit typos in your post outside of a very short time frame. There's no freedom of ideas either. There's no freedom at all there.
You can PM. As a regular member and a supporting. You guys just weren't there long enough to get past the required month for it to be activated. I am missing the multi-quote system over there, you guys should really look into that if I'm going to continue here. :crackup:

It's weird seeing LSers here. Wonder who HOMBRE could possibly be...;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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