"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Durden Tyler

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Hey all...

I've read tons of advice and comments here regarding diet and the major three excersises. It appears Warboss knows his sh!t... I wish I could do what he preaches but I don't think I will be able to devote so much time and energy into it.

My question is, can one still see gains without eating like a horse? I do plan to up my food consumption considerabley, but not as much as recommended. I don't have the time to plan such meals, much less eat six times per day.

I'm 5'8", 170 lbs. My goal is to gain ten to fifteen pounds by next spring. Is this feasable or will I be trying to revive a dead horse with a stick?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If your going to half-a$$ it then your going to get half-a$$ed results
 

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a one-hour workout three times a week can get you pretty far, especially if you focus on the big three.

eating 6 times a day shouldn't be that much trouble. I assume you already eat 3 times a day. You need to add a meal after working out, another one in late evening, and one other one (maybe liquid) during the day.
 

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Throttle said:
a one-hour workout three times a week can get you pretty far, especially if you focus on the big three.

eating 6 times a day shouldn't be that much trouble. I assume you already eat 3 times a day. You need to add a meal after working out, another one in late evening, and one other one (maybe liquid) during the day.
Putting it this way makes it sound easy :D
 

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A meal doesn't have to be a "meal". You're not eating steak and potatoes here. It's just calories. It could be some milk and and a fruit cup, who cares? Just get food in your stomach so your body isn't sitting idle.

I'm with EFFORT, the more you put in the more you get back. So you might as well do it right.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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donjuanjovi said:
A meal doesn't have to be a "meal". You're not eating steak and potatoes here. It's just calories. It could be some milk and and a fruit cup, who cares? Just get food in your stomach so your body isn't sitting idle.

I'm with EFFORT, the more you put in the more you get back. So you might as well do it right.

If you're going to give advice to do it right tell him to eat more than some milk and a fruit cup.

We already know he's not going to do it right since he's not even starting out with the right mindset (willing to work for what he wants) so this thread is pointless.
 

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mrRuckus said:
If you're going to give advice to do it right tell him to eat more than some milk and a fruit cup.

We already know he's not going to do it right since he's not even starting out with the right mindset (willing to work for what he wants) so this thread is pointless.
Okay the milk and fruit cup was a bad example.

This is a bit better for an afternoon snack (not a meal);
4oz. tuna
peanut butter sandwich on whole wheat (I like flax or 12 grain) bread
an apple
a cup of yogurt
a bottle of water to wash it all down

Durden, you're only going to get your 15lbs if you work at it.......... hard!!!!
 

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mrRuckus said:
If you're going to give advice to do it right tell him to eat more than some milk and a fruit cup.

We already know he's not going to do it right since he's not even starting out with the right mindset (willing to work for what he wants) so this thread is pointless.
Pointless thread? :( It's a question...

Can one moderatley gain weight over the course of 6 months without going balls to the wall? My thought was I may not gain as much but I would gain some. I'm not in pursuit of a HULK like figure, only beef up a little or is 10 to 15 lbs not a little?
 

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Durden Tyler said:
Pointless thread? :( It's a question...

Can one moderatley gain weight over the course of 6 months without going balls to the wall? My thought was I may not gain as much but I would gain some. I'm not in pursuit of a HULK like figure, only beef up a little or is 10 to 15 lbs not a little?
mrRuckus was just making a point that you don't really seem too dedicated to reaching your goals. Gaining 15lbs of LBM isn't easy, and if you're not prepared to make some sacrifices and put your blood, sweat, and tears into it than you're beyond help.

Unless you're extremely genetically gifted and use steroids, than you will never come close to a hulk like figure.
 

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you must go balls to the wall during workouts for them to be meaningful. my point was that the time commitment should not be an issue, though dedicaiton & energy commitment may yet be.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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