"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Durden Tyler

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Hey all...

I've read tons of advice and comments here regarding diet and the major three excersises. It appears Warboss knows his sh!t... I wish I could do what he preaches but I don't think I will be able to devote so much time and energy into it.

My question is, can one still see gains without eating like a horse? I do plan to up my food consumption considerabley, but not as much as recommended. I don't have the time to plan such meals, much less eat six times per day.

I'm 5'8", 170 lbs. My goal is to gain ten to fifteen pounds by next spring. Is this feasable or will I be trying to revive a dead horse with a stick?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If your going to half-a$$ it then your going to get half-a$$ed results
 

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a one-hour workout three times a week can get you pretty far, especially if you focus on the big three.

eating 6 times a day shouldn't be that much trouble. I assume you already eat 3 times a day. You need to add a meal after working out, another one in late evening, and one other one (maybe liquid) during the day.
 

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Throttle said:
a one-hour workout three times a week can get you pretty far, especially if you focus on the big three.

eating 6 times a day shouldn't be that much trouble. I assume you already eat 3 times a day. You need to add a meal after working out, another one in late evening, and one other one (maybe liquid) during the day.
Putting it this way makes it sound easy :D
 

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A meal doesn't have to be a "meal". You're not eating steak and potatoes here. It's just calories. It could be some milk and and a fruit cup, who cares? Just get food in your stomach so your body isn't sitting idle.

I'm with EFFORT, the more you put in the more you get back. So you might as well do it right.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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donjuanjovi said:
A meal doesn't have to be a "meal". You're not eating steak and potatoes here. It's just calories. It could be some milk and and a fruit cup, who cares? Just get food in your stomach so your body isn't sitting idle.

I'm with EFFORT, the more you put in the more you get back. So you might as well do it right.

If you're going to give advice to do it right tell him to eat more than some milk and a fruit cup.

We already know he's not going to do it right since he's not even starting out with the right mindset (willing to work for what he wants) so this thread is pointless.
 

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mrRuckus said:
If you're going to give advice to do it right tell him to eat more than some milk and a fruit cup.

We already know he's not going to do it right since he's not even starting out with the right mindset (willing to work for what he wants) so this thread is pointless.
Okay the milk and fruit cup was a bad example.

This is a bit better for an afternoon snack (not a meal);
4oz. tuna
peanut butter sandwich on whole wheat (I like flax or 12 grain) bread
an apple
a cup of yogurt
a bottle of water to wash it all down

Durden, you're only going to get your 15lbs if you work at it.......... hard!!!!
 

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mrRuckus said:
If you're going to give advice to do it right tell him to eat more than some milk and a fruit cup.

We already know he's not going to do it right since he's not even starting out with the right mindset (willing to work for what he wants) so this thread is pointless.
Pointless thread? :( It's a question...

Can one moderatley gain weight over the course of 6 months without going balls to the wall? My thought was I may not gain as much but I would gain some. I'm not in pursuit of a HULK like figure, only beef up a little or is 10 to 15 lbs not a little?
 

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Durden Tyler said:
Pointless thread? :( It's a question...

Can one moderatley gain weight over the course of 6 months without going balls to the wall? My thought was I may not gain as much but I would gain some. I'm not in pursuit of a HULK like figure, only beef up a little or is 10 to 15 lbs not a little?
mrRuckus was just making a point that you don't really seem too dedicated to reaching your goals. Gaining 15lbs of LBM isn't easy, and if you're not prepared to make some sacrifices and put your blood, sweat, and tears into it than you're beyond help.

Unless you're extremely genetically gifted and use steroids, than you will never come close to a hulk like figure.
 

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you must go balls to the wall during workouts for them to be meaningful. my point was that the time commitment should not be an issue, though dedicaiton & energy commitment may yet be.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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