"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Durden Tyler

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Hey all...

I've read tons of advice and comments here regarding diet and the major three excersises. It appears Warboss knows his sh!t... I wish I could do what he preaches but I don't think I will be able to devote so much time and energy into it.

My question is, can one still see gains without eating like a horse? I do plan to up my food consumption considerabley, but not as much as recommended. I don't have the time to plan such meals, much less eat six times per day.

I'm 5'8", 170 lbs. My goal is to gain ten to fifteen pounds by next spring. Is this feasable or will I be trying to revive a dead horse with a stick?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If your going to half-a$$ it then your going to get half-a$$ed results
 

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a one-hour workout three times a week can get you pretty far, especially if you focus on the big three.

eating 6 times a day shouldn't be that much trouble. I assume you already eat 3 times a day. You need to add a meal after working out, another one in late evening, and one other one (maybe liquid) during the day.
 

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Throttle said:
a one-hour workout three times a week can get you pretty far, especially if you focus on the big three.

eating 6 times a day shouldn't be that much trouble. I assume you already eat 3 times a day. You need to add a meal after working out, another one in late evening, and one other one (maybe liquid) during the day.
Putting it this way makes it sound easy :D
 

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A meal doesn't have to be a "meal". You're not eating steak and potatoes here. It's just calories. It could be some milk and and a fruit cup, who cares? Just get food in your stomach so your body isn't sitting idle.

I'm with EFFORT, the more you put in the more you get back. So you might as well do it right.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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donjuanjovi said:
A meal doesn't have to be a "meal". You're not eating steak and potatoes here. It's just calories. It could be some milk and and a fruit cup, who cares? Just get food in your stomach so your body isn't sitting idle.

I'm with EFFORT, the more you put in the more you get back. So you might as well do it right.

If you're going to give advice to do it right tell him to eat more than some milk and a fruit cup.

We already know he's not going to do it right since he's not even starting out with the right mindset (willing to work for what he wants) so this thread is pointless.
 

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mrRuckus said:
If you're going to give advice to do it right tell him to eat more than some milk and a fruit cup.

We already know he's not going to do it right since he's not even starting out with the right mindset (willing to work for what he wants) so this thread is pointless.
Okay the milk and fruit cup was a bad example.

This is a bit better for an afternoon snack (not a meal);
4oz. tuna
peanut butter sandwich on whole wheat (I like flax or 12 grain) bread
an apple
a cup of yogurt
a bottle of water to wash it all down

Durden, you're only going to get your 15lbs if you work at it.......... hard!!!!
 

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mrRuckus said:
If you're going to give advice to do it right tell him to eat more than some milk and a fruit cup.

We already know he's not going to do it right since he's not even starting out with the right mindset (willing to work for what he wants) so this thread is pointless.
Pointless thread? :( It's a question...

Can one moderatley gain weight over the course of 6 months without going balls to the wall? My thought was I may not gain as much but I would gain some. I'm not in pursuit of a HULK like figure, only beef up a little or is 10 to 15 lbs not a little?
 

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Durden Tyler said:
Pointless thread? :( It's a question...

Can one moderatley gain weight over the course of 6 months without going balls to the wall? My thought was I may not gain as much but I would gain some. I'm not in pursuit of a HULK like figure, only beef up a little or is 10 to 15 lbs not a little?
mrRuckus was just making a point that you don't really seem too dedicated to reaching your goals. Gaining 15lbs of LBM isn't easy, and if you're not prepared to make some sacrifices and put your blood, sweat, and tears into it than you're beyond help.

Unless you're extremely genetically gifted and use steroids, than you will never come close to a hulk like figure.
 

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you must go balls to the wall during workouts for them to be meaningful. my point was that the time commitment should not be an issue, though dedicaiton & energy commitment may yet be.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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