hey..i have a problem..i just started college and are always feeling down with my insecurities which i know its NOTHING REALLY but why is it still bothering me? i feel that this is driving my friends away from me..i did this before..and it didnt turn out good,my best friend is in the college with me,however i dont know why is he thinking bad about me,he says something like i only want to be friends with him when i need him.Hey i dont have bad intentions on him.its just that i feel that i'm not spending much time with him like usual as before we started college.this has got to change man.the reason of my issue here is i dont feel confident about myself and cant handle pressure well.Look, all i want is to be a top student. I am generally quiet and shy.Any tips guys? I really want to have a great life.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
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Just started college and feeling down,cant change myself
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Apollo
Senior Don Juan
Realize that it's all in your head.
Hit the gym up or start running. The main thing is to keep busy...it sounds as if you have too much time on your hands.
Hit the gym up or start running. The main thing is to keep busy...it sounds as if you have too much time on your hands.
College is the time to change yourself for the better, if you were the shy nerdy kid in highschool, you can be the extrovert mr populairity in college. No one there knows your past, but they can be part of your present and you can start finding the girls of your future today.
"all i want is to be a top student"
Your setting your self up to fail IMHO. Just do your best and let the future attend to its self. Who cares if your not at the top as long as you know you tried.
All that pressure is in your head.
Your setting your self up to fail IMHO. Just do your best and let the future attend to its self. Who cares if your not at the top as long as you know you tried.
All that pressure is in your head.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
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Don Juan
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this is so true man..x86 said:"all i want is to be a top student"
Your setting your self up to fail IMHO. Just do your best and let the future attend to its self. Who cares if your not at the top as long as you know you tried.
All that pressure is in your head.
sorry guys for posting this on the wrong board...my bad...
Thanks guys for the advice. Really appreciate it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.