hey..i have a problem..i just started college and are always feeling down with my insecurities which i know its NOTHING REALLY but why is it still bothering me? i feel that this is driving my friends away from me..i did this before..and it didnt turn out good,my best friend is in the college with me,however i dont know why is he thinking bad about me,he says something like i only want to be friends with him when i need him.Hey i dont have bad intentions on him.its just that i feel that i'm not spending much time with him like usual as before we started college.this has got to change man.the reason of my issue here is i dont feel confident about myself and cant handle pressure well.Look, all i want is to be a top student. I am generally quiet and shy.Any tips guys? I really want to have a great life.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Just started college and feeling down,cant change myself
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Apollo
Senior Don Juan
Realize that it's all in your head.
Hit the gym up or start running. The main thing is to keep busy...it sounds as if you have too much time on your hands.
Hit the gym up or start running. The main thing is to keep busy...it sounds as if you have too much time on your hands.
College is the time to change yourself for the better, if you were the shy nerdy kid in highschool, you can be the extrovert mr populairity in college. No one there knows your past, but they can be part of your present and you can start finding the girls of your future today.
"all i want is to be a top student"
Your setting your self up to fail IMHO. Just do your best and let the future attend to its self. Who cares if your not at the top as long as you know you tried.
All that pressure is in your head.
Your setting your self up to fail IMHO. Just do your best and let the future attend to its self. Who cares if your not at the top as long as you know you tried.
All that pressure is in your head.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Colin O'Brien
Don Juan
Blueprint Decoded man, changed my life it can change yours (or at least help).. PM for link
this is so true man..x86 said:"all i want is to be a top student"
Your setting your self up to fail IMHO. Just do your best and let the future attend to its self. Who cares if your not at the top as long as you know you tried.
All that pressure is in your head.
sorry guys for posting this on the wrong board...my bad...
Thanks guys for the advice. Really appreciate it.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.