Just Played My Top Card With The GF

[mrgoodstuff]

Don’t ever forget this truth. Intuitively smart goodstuff.
Some of the best men in this world “alpha” or “beta”, if those words fit, have been cheated on and always will be. Forever and ever.

A man who thinks it’s because other boyfriends or husbands are weak, will totally fail. Why? Because they still don’t understand the female.

Might as well live like Hugh Hefner "hot swappable". Plug and play when it becomes an issue.

 

[Epic Days]

There are most likely guys reading some of this that can’t confront it. It would smash every dream they have because every dream they have has an amazing woman.

It would mean that all that living up to this point was a lie. Wasted time. Futile efforts.
They cannot change how they view things. It’s just too much space to leap.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

A boyfriend or husband is ALWAYS in second position to her secret fuks and sucks. I don’t care who he is.

Spaz said something a long time ago that fits here. The mere fact that a man enters into monogamy with a woman, will automatically lower him in her eyes. It’s an automatic mental default. You are no longer the fuk boy but now the cuck. Her entire thinking switches. You agreed to serve her.

So its a nation of brainwashed and married cucks, blindly keeping our side pieces and sex toys maintained and emotionally supported. What a matrix.

 

[Epic Days]

So its a nation of brainwashed and married cucks, blindly keeping our side pieces and sex toys maintained and emotionally supported. What a matrix.

It’s rather horrific if a man is floating on the feminine cloud. His absolute worst possible nightmare.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It’s rather horrific if a man is floating on the feminine cloud. His absolute worst possible nightmare.

They will guilt and shame him to remain there, play him against his own emotions. How dirty.

 

[logicallefty]

Well, as the OP I should make an update to my own thread. I gave the GF the boot this morning over new developments.

Started with a fight last night. First off, in "Anything Else" I posted a couple days ago that I may be moving to Montana later this year for a job. When the opportunity came up last week I told the GF about it and the first thing she said was "You know I want to move somewhere warm and Montana is cold!". I said well "I like Montana and if I get the job the bus is leaving with or without you". She called me selfish. I tried to talk to her with logic and reason but she ignored, kept calling me selfish and not thinking of her.

So this morning I said "See you later love you" before leaving for work. She said "Bye!" I said "No love for me today?". She said "No because you are going to another State anyway and you dont care about me or my feelings". I said "OK, I guess we are roommates now then, that works for me". I left. She texted me 60 seconds later and blasted me with a bunch of emo stuff. I said "You might as well save it cuz with the lie you told me the other day and calling me selfish and then your attitude when I left for work today, we are done. ". SHe went to her son's house. Coming to get her stuff on Sunday. Nnnnnext...

 

[Spaz]

Well, as the OP I should make an update to my own thread. I gave the GF the boot this morning over new developments.

Started with a fight last night. First off, in "Anything Else" I posted a couple days ago that I may be moving to Montana later this year for a job. When the opportunity came up last week I told the GF about it and the first thing she said was "You know I want to move somewhere warm and Montana is cold!". I said well "I like Montana and if I get the job the bus is leaving with or without you". She called me selfish. I tried to talk to her with logic and reason but she ignored, kept calling me selfish and not thinking of her.

So this morning I said "See you later love you" before leaving for work. She said "Bye!" I said "No love for me today?". She said "No because you are going to another State anyway and you dont care about me or my feelings". I said "OK, I guess we are roommates now then, that works for me". I left. She texted me 60 seconds later and blasted me with a bunch of emo stuff. I said "You might as well save it cuz with the lie you told me the other day and calling me selfish and then your attitude when I left for work today, we are done. ". SHe went to her son's house. Coming to get her stuff on Sunday. Nnnnnext...

A man's destiny is to surpass his limitations.

Deny that fate and you will regret it as time passes by.

If Montana brings you closer to that destiny then do so without apology.

Move in that direction.

 

[mikey2012]

Well, as the OP I should make an update to my own thread. I gave the GF the boot this morning over new developments.

Started with a fight last night. First off, in "Anything Else" I posted a couple days ago that I may be moving to Montana later this year for a job. When the opportunity came up last week I told the GF about it and the first thing she said was "You know I want to move somewhere warm and Montana is cold!". I said well "I like Montana and if I get the job the bus is leaving with or without you". She called me selfish. I tried to talk to her with logic and reason but she ignored, kept calling me selfish and not thinking of her.

So this morning I said "See you later love you" before leaving for work. She said "Bye!" I said "No love for me today?". She said "No because you are going to another State anyway and you dont care about me or my feelings". I said "OK, I guess we are roommates now then, that works for me". I left. She texted me 60 seconds later and blasted me with a bunch of emo stuff. I said "You might as well save it cuz with the lie you told me the other day and calling me selfish and then your attitude when I left for work today, we are done. ". SHe went to her son's house. Coming to get her stuff on Sunday. Nnnnnext...

RIP. It was coming anyway . Be hard for next few weeks but after that you won’t give a sh1te. I’m prepping for a potential breakup myself so I feel for ya.

 

[Young OG]

Well, as the OP I should make an update to my own thread. I gave the GF the boot this morning over new developments.

Started with a fight last night. First off, in "Anything Else" I posted a couple days ago that I may be moving to Montana later this year for a job. When the opportunity came up last week I told the GF about it and the first thing she said was "You know I want to move somewhere warm and Montana is cold!". I said well "I like Montana and if I get the job the bus is leaving with or without you". She called me selfish. I tried to talk to her with logic and reason but she ignored, kept calling me selfish and not thinking of her.

So this morning I said "See you later love you" before leaving for work. She said "Bye!" I said "No love for me today?". She said "No because you are going to another State anyway and you dont care about me or my feelings". I said "OK, I guess we are roommates now then, that works for me". I left. She texted me 60 seconds later and blasted me with a bunch of emo stuff. I said "You might as well save it cuz with the lie you told me the other day and calling me selfish and then your attitude when I left for work today, we are done. ". SHe went to her son's house. Coming to get her stuff on Sunday. Nnnnnext...

You have been here a long time. You should know better then trying to use logic and reason on a woman. She sounds very selfish and untrustworthy. You did the right thing by ending it. She might possibly try to fix things with you, so be prepared for that.

My dad says that if your woman really loves you, she will follow you anywhere. This girl isn't willing to move to Montana with you, so she doesn't really love you.

 

[mikey2012]

You have been here a long time. You should know better then trying to use logic and reason on a woman. She sounds very selfish and untrustworthy. You did the right thing by ending it. She might possibly try to fix things with you, so be prepared for that.

My dad says that if your woman really loves you, she will follow you anywhere. This girl isn't willing to move to Montana with you, so she doesn't really love you.

But he will get over it fast since he will be in surroundings. It’s easier to forget if you go somewhere new.
One thing I like to do post break up is project myself to a time I broken up before and search my feelings now. If you do that you find you won’t care for the chick anymore .

 

[logicallefty]

You have been here a long time. You should know better then trying to use logic and reason on a woman. She sounds very selfish and untrustworthy. You did the right thing by ending it. She might possibly try to fix things with you, so be prepared for that.

My dad says that if your woman really loves you, she will follow you anywhere. This girl isn't willing to move to Montana with you, so she doesn't really love you.

Logic and reason are my default even tho yeah women rarely understand it.

That was my EXACT conclusion re not coming to Montana and weighed into my decision too.

 

[flowtheory]

So this morning I said "See you later love you" before leaving for work. She said "Bye!" I said "No love for me today?". She said "No because you are going to another State anyway and you dont care about me or my feelings". I said "OK, I guess we are roommates now then, that works for me". I left. She texted me 60 seconds later and blasted me with a bunch of emo stuff. I said "You might as well save it cuz with the lie you told me the other day and calling me selfish and then your attitude when I left for work today, we are done. ". SHe went to her son's house. Coming to get her stuff on Sunday. Nnnnnext...

Damn. Sorry to hear that you broke. It’s never easy no matter the circumstances.

The ease in which she agreed to the break up is indicative to some of your gut feelings though.
No fight for saving the relationship on her end, by the sound of things noted above.

Goes to show that our internal voice is to be deeply trusted. She broke a cardinal value of yours and your higher self would not let that go; rightly so.

 

[lamath]

Sorry...... not an easy thing.
But stick to your gun, getting dump is a big ego hit. she will probably try to fix things.

I think like @Young OG that using logic while communicating your possible move did not give you the best result. I agree as well that it was going the break up road and that you are probably better off.


In situation like this when you communicate that possible move you need to give her the news in a way that make her feel as good as possible, she need to feel that she is included in the decision even if your decision as already been taken and even if she is not a factor.

 

[BeExcellent]

Bummer. Feel for you. But as stated above if she wasn’t down to move? She’s not all in.

If a man I deeply love were to say “My life takes me over here....you are invited to join me....”?

I’d move heaven and Earth. Heaven & Earth. She wasn’t invested enough.

You will be Ok...and you’ll find a great gal in MT.

Chin up & Cheers

 

[synecdoche]

Thanks for updating this one.

 

[17 shots]

I don't want to say we told you so.... but.... well... umm... good luck out there in Montana

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I don't want to say we told you so.... but.... well... umm... good luck out there in Montana

What did you tell him?

 

[17 shots]

What did you tell him?

I said her getting caught talking to that guy again, and then crying and slamming doors after he confronted her, was a huge red flag and she's plate status

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I said her getting caught talking to that guy again, and then crying and slamming doors after he confronted her, was a huge red flag and she's plate status

Yea its a bad situation. Alot of the men have allowed a ton of mess in the social media age.

 

[Epic Days]

I said her getting caught talking to that guy again, and then crying and slamming doors after he confronted her, was a huge red flag and she's plate status

It was an act. A manipulation.