"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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just one serious problem: PsYcHoNeSs?

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my very own and for sure extremely special :)rolleyes: ) problem seems to be the following: pretty much ANY girl i met thinks i am totally psycho. they sometimes would even ask me whether i plan to run amok someday in school or something similiar (like 'i'd really like to know WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON in your mind')
i don't really have a clue about this specific topic
could anyone give an AFC a helping hand =)?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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read the bible become DJ

theres plenty of ppl here who will giv support
 
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why do they think your psychotic?

is it because you love to discuss columbine and draw pictures about you murdering people?

cause that would do it ;)
 
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Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
why do they think your psychotic?

is it because you love to discuss columbine and draw pictures about you murdering people?

cause that would do it ;)
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exactly. What do U talk about?
 
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maybe it's because you're fvckin insane.

haha im thinkin that these girls probably get that impression because you dont keep a consistant personality or something along those lines. Unpredictability is GOOD and a key to attraction, but anything can get out of hand. Who knows? Maybe you're doing everything perfectly. Just know that going too far is possible...and not cool.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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