"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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just one serious problem: PsYcHoNeSs?

ArtYo

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my very own and for sure extremely special :)rolleyes: ) problem seems to be the following: pretty much ANY girl i met thinks i am totally psycho. they sometimes would even ask me whether i plan to run amok someday in school or something similiar (like 'i'd really like to know WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON in your mind')
i don't really have a clue about this specific topic
could anyone give an AFC a helping hand =)?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ratman

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read the bible become DJ

theres plenty of ppl here who will giv support
 

Mr. Debonaire

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why do they think your psychotic?

is it because you love to discuss columbine and draw pictures about you murdering people?

cause that would do it ;)
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
why do they think your psychotic?

is it because you love to discuss columbine and draw pictures about you murdering people?

cause that would do it ;)
exactly. What do U talk about?
 

Michael Chief

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maybe it's because you're fvckin insane.

haha im thinkin that these girls probably get that impression because you dont keep a consistant personality or something along those lines. Unpredictability is GOOD and a key to attraction, but anything can get out of hand. Who knows? Maybe you're doing everything perfectly. Just know that going too far is possible...and not cool.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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