"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just one serious problem: PsYcHoNeSs?

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my very own and for sure extremely special :)rolleyes: ) problem seems to be the following: pretty much ANY girl i met thinks i am totally psycho. they sometimes would even ask me whether i plan to run amok someday in school or something similiar (like 'i'd really like to know WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON in your mind')
i don't really have a clue about this specific topic
could anyone give an AFC a helping hand =)?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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read the bible become DJ

theres plenty of ppl here who will giv support
 

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why do they think your psychotic?

is it because you love to discuss columbine and draw pictures about you murdering people?

cause that would do it ;)
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
why do they think your psychotic?

is it because you love to discuss columbine and draw pictures about you murdering people?

cause that would do it ;)
exactly. What do U talk about?
 

Michael Chief

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maybe it's because you're fvckin insane.

haha im thinkin that these girls probably get that impression because you dont keep a consistant personality or something along those lines. Unpredictability is GOOD and a key to attraction, but anything can get out of hand. Who knows? Maybe you're doing everything perfectly. Just know that going too far is possible...and not cool.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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