"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well i'm here, TTU, been here for like 3 hours just unpacking and ****. Can't wait, college is gonna kick ass

Plan on going around, meeting my new neighbors, even though no one came and talked to me with my door open :D , oh well thats why I'm a Don Juan and their not ;).

I'll keep you guys informed with my success and knowledge.

Later

--Vincent
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Enjoy yourself, mack hard. You're gonna have a fabulous time :cool:
 
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Hmm.

Hey people do you have any advice for meeting people.

What i've been doing so far is just being myself, introducing myself, try to find out about people. I think i did pretty good getting to know this group of people. Hell i did do good, just time i suppose.

Well anything else you'd like to add, previous experiences etc ;)
 
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good topic to feelout what kinda person someone is is music.
get people who seem cools #[guys n girls]. and if you hear about parties call up a few guys n invite em, so they will do the same for you.

I read allt his and a ****LOAD more in some post on entering college...i'll look for a link
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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uh... who says 'fabuolous' except for queer eye people?

Anyways a real good post over in the tips section, but don't stay online too long, it's week 1 and the social circles are quickly forming and rapports easy cuz everyone is in the same awkward new situation... Good luck and tell us how it went
 
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Things are going good, i'm getting to be pretty good friends with these people in my hall :D. Hopefully i'll be able to party it up tonight
 
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Originally posted by Vincent
Plan on going around, meeting my new neighbors, even though no one came and talked to me with my door open :D , oh well thats why I'm a Don Juan and their not ;).
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Exactly bro. Keep this kind of confidence up and you'll meet all kind of girlies. Be careful though, don't fall into the arrogant catergory, most girls hate this. You want to be confident and ****y enough to get attention without over doing it.
 
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