"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well i'm here, TTU, been here for like 3 hours just unpacking and ****. Can't wait, college is gonna kick ass

Plan on going around, meeting my new neighbors, even though no one came and talked to me with my door open :D , oh well thats why I'm a Don Juan and their not ;).

I'll keep you guys informed with my success and knowledge.

Later

--Vincent
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Enjoy yourself, mack hard. You're gonna have a fabulous time :cool:
 
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Hmm.

Hey people do you have any advice for meeting people.

What i've been doing so far is just being myself, introducing myself, try to find out about people. I think i did pretty good getting to know this group of people. Hell i did do good, just time i suppose.

Well anything else you'd like to add, previous experiences etc ;)
 
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good topic to feelout what kinda person someone is is music.
get people who seem cools #[guys n girls]. and if you hear about parties call up a few guys n invite em, so they will do the same for you.

I read allt his and a ****LOAD more in some post on entering college...i'll look for a link
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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uh... who says 'fabuolous' except for queer eye people?

Anyways a real good post over in the tips section, but don't stay online too long, it's week 1 and the social circles are quickly forming and rapports easy cuz everyone is in the same awkward new situation... Good luck and tell us how it went
 
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Things are going good, i'm getting to be pretty good friends with these people in my hall :D. Hopefully i'll be able to party it up tonight
 
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Originally posted by Vincent
Plan on going around, meeting my new neighbors, even though no one came and talked to me with my door open :D , oh well thats why I'm a Don Juan and their not ;).
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Exactly bro. Keep this kind of confidence up and you'll meet all kind of girlies. Be careful though, don't fall into the arrogant catergory, most girls hate this. You want to be confident and ****y enough to get attention without over doing it.
 
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