moved to a new area started a new job yesterday. i observed two 10s, and a group of 7,8, and 9s who work as waitress. im a cook working with some really chill guys also. im new to the area, so do you guys think i should start working my game on the ladies, or getting aquainted with the guys first. realistically, because of observed competitiveness in the back, its one or the other. i think that if i get tied up with the guys, ill lose value with the girls by default, and i go straight for the girls, ill get constantly **** blocked.. ur thoughts? any advice?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Keep your game tight and socialize with everyone 
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.ezily
Senior Don Juan
those guys can probably introduce to more girls and expand your social circle.
Why not just make friends with the dudes and shoot some game towards the girls? Don't start talking about chicks at work to the guys that you start working with until you get to know them. Some of them might be the jealous ****ers that have tried to get with them in the past, but failed and may try to ruin your game for you. Good luck!
I find it best not to talk about chicks I'm trying to hook up with to the dudes with whom I work because of that reason.
I find it best not to talk about chicks I'm trying to hook up with to the dudes with whom I work because of that reason.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
I would stay away from relationships with girls you work with. But, I'd become friends with everyone you work with. With the girls you work with; you can meet their girlfriends and game them.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.