moved to a new area started a new job yesterday. i observed two 10s, and a group of 7,8, and 9s who work as waitress. im a cook working with some really chill guys also. im new to the area, so do you guys think i should start working my game on the ladies, or getting aquainted with the guys first. realistically, because of observed competitiveness in the back, its one or the other. i think that if i get tied up with the guys, ill lose value with the girls by default, and i go straight for the girls, ill get constantly **** blocked.. ur thoughts? any advice?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Just Moved - Hb10s At Work
- Thread starter BRaN
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Keep your game tight and socialize with everyone 
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.ezily
Senior Don Juan
those guys can probably introduce to more girls and expand your social circle.
Why not just make friends with the dudes and shoot some game towards the girls? Don't start talking about chicks at work to the guys that you start working with until you get to know them. Some of them might be the jealous ****ers that have tried to get with them in the past, but failed and may try to ruin your game for you. Good luck!
I find it best not to talk about chicks I'm trying to hook up with to the dudes with whom I work because of that reason.
I find it best not to talk about chicks I'm trying to hook up with to the dudes with whom I work because of that reason.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
I would stay away from relationships with girls you work with. But, I'd become friends with everyone you work with. With the girls you work with; you can meet their girlfriends and game them.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.