moved to a new area started a new job yesterday. i observed two 10s, and a group of 7,8, and 9s who work as waitress. im a cook working with some really chill guys also. im new to the area, so do you guys think i should start working my game on the ladies, or getting aquainted with the guys first. realistically, because of observed competitiveness in the back, its one or the other. i think that if i get tied up with the guys, ill lose value with the girls by default, and i go straight for the girls, ill get constantly **** blocked.. ur thoughts? any advice?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Just Moved - Hb10s At Work
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Keep your game tight and socialize with everyone 
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.ezily
Senior Don Juan
those guys can probably introduce to more girls and expand your social circle.
Why not just make friends with the dudes and shoot some game towards the girls? Don't start talking about chicks at work to the guys that you start working with until you get to know them. Some of them might be the jealous ****ers that have tried to get with them in the past, but failed and may try to ruin your game for you. Good luck!
I find it best not to talk about chicks I'm trying to hook up with to the dudes with whom I work because of that reason.
I find it best not to talk about chicks I'm trying to hook up with to the dudes with whom I work because of that reason.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
I would stay away from relationships with girls you work with. But, I'd become friends with everyone you work with. With the girls you work with; you can meet their girlfriends and game them.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.