MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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Let me give some background info. This guy, who for all intents and purposes, had never dated anyone else, marries his childhood sweetheart, and they have 2 boys. At 16 she was quite attractive. She has always had a little bit of childish attitude, but in a way that isn't bad, if that makes any sense. In general though, her general warmth and graciousness makes her a nice woman to be around. To the best of my knowledge, she has never been the type of woman to have "headaches".
Whereas he has gradually learned to fend for himself socially, worked hard at his business, taken an interest in bettering himself like getting in good shape, etc., she has, in the typical American Woman way, let herself go to the point that she has no sexual value. He has always complained about the situation to her, but to no avail. Along the way, he has taken more and more of an interest in flirting with women, etc. He obviously has been detecting that his sexual market value is far in excess of hers.
Then a few years ago, a natural disaster happened which forced her and the kids to live out of town, while he stayed around. This seemed to give him the last bit of fortitude that he could make it on his own emotionally, as well as give the perfect reason to get out. Right before she moved back, he let his intentions be known, and he has kept his separate residence.
Our common social circle includes his and her family members, and a few friends, with only 2 of us who are bachelors. As Rollo Tomassi and many others have always said, the ostracization has been very, very strong from the females, and even strong from most of the males.
As for me, I am of the opinion that she had it coming for not doing her duty to present him with anything remotely near to an attractive woman that would satisfy his sexual appetite. For a man who takes care of himself, she is really an embarrassment to him in this regard (of course, I could say this about a lot of other man I know!)
Anyway, soon I will be seeing them for the first time in a while (evidently they will both be this party!) along with many others who I haven't seen since this issue came up. At the very least, I feel I should give him some encouragement in the path he has chosen.
Whereas he has gradually learned to fend for himself socially, worked hard at his business, taken an interest in bettering himself like getting in good shape, etc., she has, in the typical American Woman way, let herself go to the point that she has no sexual value. He has always complained about the situation to her, but to no avail. Along the way, he has taken more and more of an interest in flirting with women, etc. He obviously has been detecting that his sexual market value is far in excess of hers.
Then a few years ago, a natural disaster happened which forced her and the kids to live out of town, while he stayed around. This seemed to give him the last bit of fortitude that he could make it on his own emotionally, as well as give the perfect reason to get out. Right before she moved back, he let his intentions be known, and he has kept his separate residence.
Our common social circle includes his and her family members, and a few friends, with only 2 of us who are bachelors. As Rollo Tomassi and many others have always said, the ostracization has been very, very strong from the females, and even strong from most of the males.
As for me, I am of the opinion that she had it coming for not doing her duty to present him with anything remotely near to an attractive woman that would satisfy his sexual appetite. For a man who takes care of himself, she is really an embarrassment to him in this regard (of course, I could say this about a lot of other man I know!)
Anyway, soon I will be seeing them for the first time in a while (evidently they will both be this party!) along with many others who I haven't seen since this issue came up. At the very least, I feel I should give him some encouragement in the path he has chosen.