The two main ingredients in a successful marriage- a masculine Man, and a feminine Woman.
Should a man fail to act in a masculine capacity in his marriage, failing to protect and provide, he has it coming to him if his wife decides to leave.
A man's value is judged primarily by his ability to protect and provide. A woman's value is judged primarily on her beauty and reproductive value.
A woman gaining a bunch of weight LOSES her value. Right or wrong, shallow or not, unless the man has a particular fetish for that sort of thing, he is no longer able to look at that woman as having value.
If a man "lets himself go" as far as giving up on his ambitions and becoming a lazy couch potato, (or if he becomes physically unattractive), he will no longer have the value he had going into the relationship.
Fact of life- you can't FORCE attraction. It's there or it isn't.
The thought of living with, sleeping with, and having sex with a woman who turns me off makes me cringe.
Do you really think the kids are gonna be happy with daddy trying for the rest of his life to FORCE himself to be attracted to his wife? Do you think daddy's gonna be happy? NO WAY
Should a man fail to act in a masculine capacity in his marriage, failing to protect and provide, he has it coming to him if his wife decides to leave.
A man's value is judged primarily by his ability to protect and provide. A woman's value is judged primarily on her beauty and reproductive value.
A woman gaining a bunch of weight LOSES her value. Right or wrong, shallow or not, unless the man has a particular fetish for that sort of thing, he is no longer able to look at that woman as having value.
If a man "lets himself go" as far as giving up on his ambitions and becoming a lazy couch potato, (or if he becomes physically unattractive), he will no longer have the value he had going into the relationship.
Fact of life- you can't FORCE attraction. It's there or it isn't.
The thought of living with, sleeping with, and having sex with a woman who turns me off makes me cringe.
Do you really think the kids are gonna be happy with daddy trying for the rest of his life to FORCE himself to be attracted to his wife? Do you think daddy's gonna be happy? NO WAY