SharinganUser
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I am just wondering how many of you have actually read the DJ Bible? How much did you read of it? Which parts? and How much has it helped you?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Just How Important is it to Read the DJ bible?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Over 5 years I have read everything on this site and it is paying off. I have a woman stalking me. It takes awhile to absorb all the advice this site records.
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The bible is the whole point of this site. The forum is just a support structure for it. Its like when new towns form around mines or something. Dig for knowledge in the bible, and then come back home here at the forums and spread what you've learned.
I'd say it should be a requirement for posting.
As for myself, I haven't read all of it, and I don't think that's completely necessary. I read enough to learn what I needed to learn. You'll know once you've reached this point. Then, you can just read parts for fun or to refresh your memory.
I also think the bible needs updating/revising. That's a lot of material to read, and some of it is kind of redundant. And there are new tips and threads worthy of being added every now and then, but I don't think anything new has been put in it for years.
I'd say it should be a requirement for posting.
As for myself, I haven't read all of it, and I don't think that's completely necessary. I read enough to learn what I needed to learn. You'll know once you've reached this point. Then, you can just read parts for fun or to refresh your memory.
I also think the bible needs updating/revising. That's a lot of material to read, and some of it is kind of redundant. And there are new tips and threads worthy of being added every now and then, but I don't think anything new has been put in it for years.
SharinganUser
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I have decided to read some of it. Heck I gotta start somewhere, just coming to this site has been good over the years, but I haven't got a good foundation. For example, I am not a touchy person and I think that has been a fault of mine that has limited me. If I study that thing more, then it can help me I suppose.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
crazysheep4
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I think its important to read it. Or atleast some of the beginning stuff like "be a man" "kill the desperation" "fifteen lessons" "weapons of mass seduction" etc. All those posts have helped me a great amount. Personally anyway.
They are more about where your mind should be focused on and whats really important.
They are more about where your mind should be focused on and whats really important.
Far more important than reading any article of techniques is the change that comes from within.
The moment when one accepts themselves and seeks to be the best they can be, to live without fear and seize the moment, to disregard the thoughts of others and pursuit the greatest pleasures of life.
The moment one stops worrying about pimples or what a ***** thinks and starts thinking about what they want to do with this life and this world.
The moment one stops making excuses and faces their fear like a man.
The moment we step into the world and LIVE
Until one can make this inner change, memorizing all the techniques and strategies in the world won't help you. An unconfident man who has memorized a bunch of **** off a website is at the end of the day still an unconfident man, and will come off as such, and go home alone.
The moment when one accepts themselves and seeks to be the best they can be, to live without fear and seize the moment, to disregard the thoughts of others and pursuit the greatest pleasures of life.
The moment one stops worrying about pimples or what a ***** thinks and starts thinking about what they want to do with this life and this world.
The moment one stops making excuses and faces their fear like a man.
The moment we step into the world and LIVE
Until one can make this inner change, memorizing all the techniques and strategies in the world won't help you. An unconfident man who has memorized a bunch of **** off a website is at the end of the day still an unconfident man, and will come off as such, and go home alone.
crazysheep4
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its at the very bottom of the the page in the center
if u cant find it....
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
if u cant find it....
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/