"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just How Important is it to Read the DJ bible?

SharinganUser

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I am just wondering how many of you have actually read the DJ Bible? How much did you read of it? Which parts? and How much has it helped you?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Over 5 years I have read everything on this site and it is paying off. I have a woman stalking me. It takes awhile to absorb all the advice this site records.
 

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The bible is the whole point of this site. The forum is just a support structure for it. Its like when new towns form around mines or something. Dig for knowledge in the bible, and then come back home here at the forums and spread what you've learned.

I'd say it should be a requirement for posting.


As for myself, I haven't read all of it, and I don't think that's completely necessary. I read enough to learn what I needed to learn. You'll know once you've reached this point. Then, you can just read parts for fun or to refresh your memory.

I also think the bible needs updating/revising. That's a lot of material to read, and some of it is kind of redundant. And there are new tips and threads worthy of being added every now and then, but I don't think anything new has been put in it for years.
 

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I have decided to read some of it. Heck I gotta start somewhere, just coming to this site has been good over the years, but I haven't got a good foundation. For example, I am not a touchy person and I think that has been a fault of mine that has limited me. If I study that thing more, then it can help me I suppose.
 

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i've even gone to a bootcamp and found the dj bible to be a good read. it also focuses people and gets them to approach, which shoots quality of the forum through the roof.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think its important to read it. Or atleast some of the beginning stuff like "be a man" "kill the desperation" "fifteen lessons" "weapons of mass seduction" etc. All those posts have helped me a great amount. Personally anyway.

They are more about where your mind should be focused on and whats really important.
 

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Far more important than reading any article of techniques is the change that comes from within.
The moment when one accepts themselves and seeks to be the best they can be, to live without fear and seize the moment, to disregard the thoughts of others and pursuit the greatest pleasures of life.
The moment one stops worrying about pimples or what a ***** thinks and starts thinking about what they want to do with this life and this world.
The moment one stops making excuses and faces their fear like a man.

The moment we step into the world and LIVE

Until one can make this inner change, memorizing all the techniques and strategies in the world won't help you. An unconfident man who has memorized a bunch of **** off a website is at the end of the day still an unconfident man, and will come off as such, and go home alone.
 
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