"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Just How Important is it to Read the DJ bible?

SharinganUser

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I am just wondering how many of you have actually read the DJ Bible? How much did you read of it? Which parts? and How much has it helped you?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Over 5 years I have read everything on this site and it is paying off. I have a woman stalking me. It takes awhile to absorb all the advice this site records.
 

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The bible is the whole point of this site. The forum is just a support structure for it. Its like when new towns form around mines or something. Dig for knowledge in the bible, and then come back home here at the forums and spread what you've learned.

I'd say it should be a requirement for posting.


As for myself, I haven't read all of it, and I don't think that's completely necessary. I read enough to learn what I needed to learn. You'll know once you've reached this point. Then, you can just read parts for fun or to refresh your memory.

I also think the bible needs updating/revising. That's a lot of material to read, and some of it is kind of redundant. And there are new tips and threads worthy of being added every now and then, but I don't think anything new has been put in it for years.
 

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I have decided to read some of it. Heck I gotta start somewhere, just coming to this site has been good over the years, but I haven't got a good foundation. For example, I am not a touchy person and I think that has been a fault of mine that has limited me. If I study that thing more, then it can help me I suppose.
 

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i've even gone to a bootcamp and found the dj bible to be a good read. it also focuses people and gets them to approach, which shoots quality of the forum through the roof.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think its important to read it. Or atleast some of the beginning stuff like "be a man" "kill the desperation" "fifteen lessons" "weapons of mass seduction" etc. All those posts have helped me a great amount. Personally anyway.

They are more about where your mind should be focused on and whats really important.
 

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Far more important than reading any article of techniques is the change that comes from within.
The moment when one accepts themselves and seeks to be the best they can be, to live without fear and seize the moment, to disregard the thoughts of others and pursuit the greatest pleasures of life.
The moment one stops worrying about pimples or what a ***** thinks and starts thinking about what they want to do with this life and this world.
The moment one stops making excuses and faces their fear like a man.

The moment we step into the world and LIVE

Until one can make this inner change, memorizing all the techniques and strategies in the world won't help you. An unconfident man who has memorized a bunch of **** off a website is at the end of the day still an unconfident man, and will come off as such, and go home alone.
 
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