"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just How Important is it to Read the DJ bible?

SharinganUser

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I am just wondering how many of you have actually read the DJ Bible? How much did you read of it? Which parts? and How much has it helped you?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Over 5 years I have read everything on this site and it is paying off. I have a woman stalking me. It takes awhile to absorb all the advice this site records.
 

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The bible is the whole point of this site. The forum is just a support structure for it. Its like when new towns form around mines or something. Dig for knowledge in the bible, and then come back home here at the forums and spread what you've learned.

I'd say it should be a requirement for posting.


As for myself, I haven't read all of it, and I don't think that's completely necessary. I read enough to learn what I needed to learn. You'll know once you've reached this point. Then, you can just read parts for fun or to refresh your memory.

I also think the bible needs updating/revising. That's a lot of material to read, and some of it is kind of redundant. And there are new tips and threads worthy of being added every now and then, but I don't think anything new has been put in it for years.
 

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I have decided to read some of it. Heck I gotta start somewhere, just coming to this site has been good over the years, but I haven't got a good foundation. For example, I am not a touchy person and I think that has been a fault of mine that has limited me. If I study that thing more, then it can help me I suppose.
 

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i've even gone to a bootcamp and found the dj bible to be a good read. it also focuses people and gets them to approach, which shoots quality of the forum through the roof.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think its important to read it. Or atleast some of the beginning stuff like "be a man" "kill the desperation" "fifteen lessons" "weapons of mass seduction" etc. All those posts have helped me a great amount. Personally anyway.

They are more about where your mind should be focused on and whats really important.
 

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Far more important than reading any article of techniques is the change that comes from within.
The moment when one accepts themselves and seeks to be the best they can be, to live without fear and seize the moment, to disregard the thoughts of others and pursuit the greatest pleasures of life.
The moment one stops worrying about pimples or what a ***** thinks and starts thinking about what they want to do with this life and this world.
The moment one stops making excuses and faces their fear like a man.

The moment we step into the world and LIVE

Until one can make this inner change, memorizing all the techniques and strategies in the world won't help you. An unconfident man who has memorized a bunch of **** off a website is at the end of the day still an unconfident man, and will come off as such, and go home alone.
 
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