Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Just Got Laid!

Nex

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2004
Messages
347
Reaction score
2
Age
37
Location
Somewhere in Europe
Thank you SOSUAVE! Thank you ALL!

If it wasn't for you, I wouldn't have just gotten laid by a 19 year old HB9 blond girl named Layla!

Just one problem: it took like 10 minutes with BJ for me to get a hard on, then it would come back down in a few seconds. And so on... The sex sucked. Man, it sucked ass. I hope it's not always like this! BUT I STILL GOT LAID. :D

Will I get better in time? I've arragend to meet her again just for sex, but I don't want this happening again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

familyguyfan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 2, 2005
Messages
551
Reaction score
0
I think that can happen if you're really nervous because you're not used to being with a real hot girl, or even having sex in general.
 

Layla

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2004
Messages
234
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Location
tx
What! the sex sucked?

stop posting our love life on the forums please nex.....:D
 

AverageFC

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 30, 2004
Messages
599
Reaction score
0
I envy you. I wouldnt mind sex with a 23 year old woman.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Nex

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2004
Messages
347
Reaction score
2
Age
37
Location
Somewhere in Europe
Originally posted by Teen Spirit
Hope you remembered to PIITB.
What's that?

EDIT: Oooohhh... Put it in the back. I thought about it but it would be pretty hard (pun) since my **** wasn't hard enough, and she had this "rolling eyes are you done look" on her face. :mad:
 

Blue Phoenix

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 23, 2004
Messages
1,335
Reaction score
27
Originally posted by Layla
If it wasn't for you, I wouldn't have just gotten laid by a 19 year old HB9 blond girl named Layla!
Layla and Nex having sex!!! :eek:
 
Last edited:

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Nex

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2004
Messages
347
Reaction score
2
Age
37
Location
Somewhere in Europe
Originally posted by Desdinova
If I didn't know better, I'd say it was your first time :)

Don't worry, it gets better as you become more comfortable with sex in general.
As some of you may have noticed from my other posts, I'm a really heavy drinker. This was my first time COMPLETELY SOBER, and I had it planned out before hand (wasn't spontaneous) and had about 30 minutes to think "holy **** what if it doesn't go up."
 
Top