"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nice, saved me the trouble :D ... FREEDOM!! :cheer:

I'm currently spinning 4 plates, but none of those intrest me at all though... Only sexually am I intrested in those... I have however set my eye on a HB9. And next month is the internship I alwayse wanted to do...

:D all I need now is a good cigar, a glass of scotch and a good chair in the sun, then life would truely be perfect
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How could you be spinning plates when, as you imply, you were in an exclusive relationship? Since you're talking about now you have freedom and all. Were you just cheating?
 
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We were togheter 1 year and 8 months, but the last 3 have been going down hill. She was just done with her exams today, so I was going to dump her, but she did before I could... I did plan this out actually, stoped sending messages and giving attention for about a month now. Well that saves her her ego, meaning less trouble later on/fights later on.

I love it when a plan comes togheter :)

@ Zekko: Well, like I posted here, I was going to dump here about a month ago, but I didn't want to ruin her exams, so I just went totally cold on her. (She's the sister of my best mate)
While I went cold on her I did start to spin plates... I can't help it, it was exams and I needed female attention. And I've alwayse been taught: Never pass up on a good thing!
 
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It appears as if you don't care at all, and that's is cool if you are really being honest and all. But something in my intuition tells me that you may not be being 100% true to yourself... And you may be hurt somehow. It's commom, it happens lots of times. I wanna help you out here by saying this... Are you masking your emotions? Are you running away from the pain of rejection? And avoiding to feel it just so that the girl doesn't "win"?

Probably not but I wanted to write that either way... I got no idea, but it could be happening! It happens so many times...

If not great for you. :D ;) edit:After reading your second post I'd guess you're cool with all this, nice then.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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who cares about his life..if he wants to hurt himself let him hurt himself. Are you his dad or what.
 
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So you're saying I shouldn't have write that? It surley didn't hurt to spend 5 minutes to write that, I'd appreciate it if someone did it for me that's for sure... But that depends on the person. I think we should all try to help eachother... Nothing wrong with that!!
 
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Credos said:
We were togheter 1 year and 8 months, but the last 3 have been going down hill. She was just done with her exams today, so I was going to dump her, but she did before I could... I did plan this out actually, stoped sending messages and giving attention for about a month now. Well that saves her her ego, meaning less trouble later on/fights later on.

I love it when a plan comes togheter :)

@ Zekko: Well, like I posted here, I was going to dump here about a month ago, but I didn't want to ruin her exams, so I just went totally cold on her. (She's the sister of my best mate)
While I went cold on her I did start to spin plates... I can't help it, it was exams and I needed female attention. And I've alwayse been taught: Never pass up on a good thing!
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WOW MY EX DID SAME THING!

She said lets take a break before we actually broke it off... and this is because, she had her exams and didnt want drama!

NOW I GET IT !! LOL
 
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zekko said:
How could you be spinning plates when, as you imply, you were in an exclusive relationship? Since you're talking about now you have freedom and all. Were you just cheating?
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I didn't see him mention anything about "exclusive"
 
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