"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nice, saved me the trouble :D ... FREEDOM!! :cheer:

I'm currently spinning 4 plates, but none of those intrest me at all though... Only sexually am I intrested in those... I have however set my eye on a HB9. And next month is the internship I alwayse wanted to do...

:D all I need now is a good cigar, a glass of scotch and a good chair in the sun, then life would truely be perfect
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How could you be spinning plates when, as you imply, you were in an exclusive relationship? Since you're talking about now you have freedom and all. Were you just cheating?
 
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We were togheter 1 year and 8 months, but the last 3 have been going down hill. She was just done with her exams today, so I was going to dump her, but she did before I could... I did plan this out actually, stoped sending messages and giving attention for about a month now. Well that saves her her ego, meaning less trouble later on/fights later on.

I love it when a plan comes togheter :)

@ Zekko: Well, like I posted here, I was going to dump here about a month ago, but I didn't want to ruin her exams, so I just went totally cold on her. (She's the sister of my best mate)
While I went cold on her I did start to spin plates... I can't help it, it was exams and I needed female attention. And I've alwayse been taught: Never pass up on a good thing!
 
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It appears as if you don't care at all, and that's is cool if you are really being honest and all. But something in my intuition tells me that you may not be being 100% true to yourself... And you may be hurt somehow. It's commom, it happens lots of times. I wanna help you out here by saying this... Are you masking your emotions? Are you running away from the pain of rejection? And avoiding to feel it just so that the girl doesn't "win"?

Probably not but I wanted to write that either way... I got no idea, but it could be happening! It happens so many times...

If not great for you. :D ;) edit:After reading your second post I'd guess you're cool with all this, nice then.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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who cares about his life..if he wants to hurt himself let him hurt himself. Are you his dad or what.
 
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So you're saying I shouldn't have write that? It surley didn't hurt to spend 5 minutes to write that, I'd appreciate it if someone did it for me that's for sure... But that depends on the person. I think we should all try to help eachother... Nothing wrong with that!!
 
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Credos said:
We were togheter 1 year and 8 months, but the last 3 have been going down hill. She was just done with her exams today, so I was going to dump her, but she did before I could... I did plan this out actually, stoped sending messages and giving attention for about a month now. Well that saves her her ego, meaning less trouble later on/fights later on.

I love it when a plan comes togheter :)

@ Zekko: Well, like I posted here, I was going to dump here about a month ago, but I didn't want to ruin her exams, so I just went totally cold on her. (She's the sister of my best mate)
While I went cold on her I did start to spin plates... I can't help it, it was exams and I needed female attention. And I've alwayse been taught: Never pass up on a good thing!
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WOW MY EX DID SAME THING!

She said lets take a break before we actually broke it off... and this is because, she had her exams and didnt want drama!

NOW I GET IT !! LOL
 
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zekko said:
How could you be spinning plates when, as you imply, you were in an exclusive relationship? Since you're talking about now you have freedom and all. Were you just cheating?
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I didn't see him mention anything about "exclusive"
 
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