Ok, there was a chick(HB7) who I hung out with some this summer. She seemed very interested(as she would tell me that she would be upset if I didn't hang out with her, and got excited when I did come around.) Sounds good right? Well when it was hitting off pretty well, she left for a month to go see relatives far away(this is no BS cuz there was a going away party for her.) Well, she came back yesterday and I have been invited to her welcome back party. I was just wondering how I should go about pursueing this. (And no I am not going to oneitis it up, if I can fck other chicks then by all means I will.)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
. Read teh dj bible.....be yourself.....its quite simple.