Ok, there was a chick(HB7) who I hung out with some this summer. She seemed very interested(as she would tell me that she would be upset if I didn't hang out with her, and got excited when I did come around.) Sounds good right? Well when it was hitting off pretty well, she left for a month to go see relatives far away(this is no BS cuz there was a going away party for her.) Well, she came back yesterday and I have been invited to her welcome back party. I was just wondering how I should go about pursueing this. (And no I am not going to oneitis it up, if I can fck other chicks then by all means I will.)
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Just got back from vacation
- Thread starter zzirf25
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
. Read teh dj bible.....be yourself.....its quite simple.