Ok, there was a chick(HB7) who I hung out with some this summer. She seemed very interested(as she would tell me that she would be upset if I didn't hang out with her, and got excited when I did come around.) Sounds good right? Well when it was hitting off pretty well, she left for a month to go see relatives far away(this is no BS cuz there was a going away party for her.) Well, she came back yesterday and I have been invited to her welcome back party. I was just wondering how I should go about pursueing this. (And no I am not going to oneitis it up, if I can fck other chicks then by all means I will.)
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
. Read teh dj bible.....be yourself.....its quite simple.