"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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zzirf25

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Ok, there was a chick(HB7) who I hung out with some this summer. She seemed very interested(as she would tell me that she would be upset if I didn't hang out with her, and got excited when I did come around.) Sounds good right? Well when it was hitting off pretty well, she left for a month to go see relatives far away(this is no BS cuz there was a going away party for her.) Well, she came back yesterday and I have been invited to her welcome back party. I was just wondering how I should go about pursueing this. (And no I am not going to oneitis it up, if I can fck other chicks then by all means I will.)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wiesman44

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what kind of question is that ? how should u pursue it ? just do everything in your powers to get her in bed :). Read teh dj bible.....be yourself.....its quite simple.
 

zzirf25

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No, that is not what I ment, what I was asking was how to go after a chick that you haven't seen in over a month
 
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