"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just got another reply on Facebook dating. Should give it a try.

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Is anyone using the facebook dating app yet? If not, you might want to give it a try, especially if you live in a bigger city. I'm using it right now and so far the reply rate is higher on there than traditional OLD sites. Only downside is not a lot of users on there right now like by me for example.

However I like the format. It's similar to Tinder you like or pass them.

There is a secret though that seems to get me results. There is no message feature unless you both like each other. HOWEVER it allows you to comment on users photos so basically that's like messaging them because they get the message. I use that and make a cute comment about their photos and introduce myself and that seems to get responses.

Also the fact not that many are on the app like match and such helps too.

I like how it's easy to use to. Unlike match where you have to craft longer messages out and such.

Overall you guys should give it a try. I just started chatting with an HB8 on there right now. She's only 45 miles away!!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There is a secret though that seems to get me results. There is no message feature unless you both like each other. HOWEVER it allows you to comment on users photos so basically that's like messaging them because they get the message. I use that and make a cute comment about their photos and introduce myself and that seems to get responses.
So on Tinder you can only message chicks that are somehow interested or swiped by mistake. This is like Tinder, but you can also validate girls that didn't show any interest in you. How is that better?

Overall you guys should give it a try. I just started chatting with an HB8 on there right now. She's only 45 miles away!!!!!
I'm not driving 45 miles just for sex, thank you very much!
 

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Give it a try... it's not going to kill you.... and that which does not kill you makes you stronger. The worst that can happen is you LEARN it sucks and you just walk away from it.

It's just like anything in life, a job, hobby, CHICKS,... the worst that can happen is you learn something.

Try anything... but make sure what ever you do you can AFFORD and avoid long term contracts.... otherwise live life like a fearless beast.
 

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So on Tinder you can only message chicks that are somehow interested or swiped by mistake. This is like Tinder, but you can also validate girls that didn't show any interest in you. How is that better?



I'm not driving 45 miles just for sex, thank you very much!
Except seems to be a lot less fake profiles on facebook dating since you need a fb account for it. Most of the girls on tinder around here are ugly or hookers, lots of them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So far the quality I’ve been matched with on Facebook dating is horrible.
 

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So far the quality I’ve been matched with on Facebook dating is horrible.
Still pretty new. If you know from my post OLD really sucks around here quality and quantity wise but FB dating some of the women are decent looking. Easier to use than match to. Less time consuming. The key to getting "likes" is leaving a message on their photos. There is no initial message system on there but you can leave a message on their photos and they see that. I comment on a cute pic and they seem to like that. Better reply rate than the typical OLD sites.

Also that it's so new there probably isn't 10 million guys on it.
 
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