"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just got a 7.5 cutie, LOTS of people hating..

aznxboi

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Wassup fellas,

Here is the catch My girlfriend and I almost been dating for 2 months now. She 18, and I'm turning 21 soon. One of my roommate always give me sh*t, saying how she a freshman and I'm a senior. And, basically saying how easy she is to get with. Well, This guy is the typical jock, he works out everyday. But gets rejected left and right. He just got shot down for several jobs he applied to, rejected to pledge of a fraternity, and bring like ugly girls over (4 or 5).

I have no idea how to deal with this kinda bullsh*t, since he is my roommate and all. And, I don't want my girlfriend to get involve in this, since she comes over every now and then. How will you deal with this DJs?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cashew

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Ignore it and shrug it off. He's probably jealous.
 

moneyisking

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Nice, I am happy that fellow DJs are getting success from this site, b/c I know then I will develop b/c of it too.

To me this is more of man question. I guess you need to look at it with moderation. If he just mildly jokes around and talk little **** here and there, then it's fine to ignore, but if you get this feeling that he's really doing it to piss you and your GF and go way overboard, then by all means kicking his ass sounds the best option.
 

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The only one who has a problem is your roommate so its his problem. When he sees you with a nice girl it only bring home the reality that he can't get any. As I said its his problem not yours.


Do not let his behaviour make your mood more negative. Whenever he says anything bad about your relationship remember that its just his own insecurities coming out. You could point that out to him but theres no need because what he says shouldn't effect you in the slightest.


Insecure people don't like seeing others succeed because it highlights their own failures.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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moneyisking

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hey wait, this thread kind of reminds me of past thread where a guy was complaining that his roommate was bringing in his ex-chick to the room, so he asked SS advice what to do. Everyone told him to kick his ass or move out, or make him move out, but I think this will be hilarious if the writer of the thread is actually THAT roommate
 

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Smile at the haters and shake their dirt off your shoulder as that old Jay Z song goes.

Normally I can't stand Jay Z but he makes a good point with that song. :up:
 

daygameguy

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Smile at him and let him speak.. then nod and say "I know.. but I know why I still like her though... I must be mad." .. "come on I'll show you this new video on youtube"

^^ That's how you deal with a roomie.
 

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If you don't have haters, you're mediocre.

Give yourself a pat on the back. :)
 

aznxboi

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Awesome, thanks fellas for your advice. At this point, I just plan not to talk to him much. I'm totally cool with my other roommates, its just him. He have a huge ego, he thinks a lot of stuff is homo or gay, he brings home like unattractive 4.5-5 girls. And, he thinks a freshman and a senior dating is WRONG, and takes no skills.

Well overall, screw this bull****. I'm living the finest year of my college career. I tend to run into guys that hates on me when it comes to girls. AGAIN, good looking out fellas. Wish you guys best of luck, and game on. ;)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Good for you man. If you get hated on, it usually means you're doing something RIGHT! Their hate is a testament to your GAME! Play on, playa!
 

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Your_Royal_Flyness said:
Good for you man. If you get hated on, it usually means you're doing something RIGHT! Their hate is a testament to your GAME! Play on, playa!
Hatas make you famous! Clown their ass! Rep for you!
 
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