"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just got a 7.5 cutie, LOTS of people hating..

aznxboi

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Wassup fellas,

Here is the catch My girlfriend and I almost been dating for 2 months now. She 18, and I'm turning 21 soon. One of my roommate always give me sh*t, saying how she a freshman and I'm a senior. And, basically saying how easy she is to get with. Well, This guy is the typical jock, he works out everyday. But gets rejected left and right. He just got shot down for several jobs he applied to, rejected to pledge of a fraternity, and bring like ugly girls over (4 or 5).

I have no idea how to deal with this kinda bullsh*t, since he is my roommate and all. And, I don't want my girlfriend to get involve in this, since she comes over every now and then. How will you deal with this DJs?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cashew

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Ignore it and shrug it off. He's probably jealous.
 

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Nice, I am happy that fellow DJs are getting success from this site, b/c I know then I will develop b/c of it too.

To me this is more of man question. I guess you need to look at it with moderation. If he just mildly jokes around and talk little **** here and there, then it's fine to ignore, but if you get this feeling that he's really doing it to piss you and your GF and go way overboard, then by all means kicking his ass sounds the best option.
 

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The only one who has a problem is your roommate so its his problem. When he sees you with a nice girl it only bring home the reality that he can't get any. As I said its his problem not yours.


Do not let his behaviour make your mood more negative. Whenever he says anything bad about your relationship remember that its just his own insecurities coming out. You could point that out to him but theres no need because what he says shouldn't effect you in the slightest.


Insecure people don't like seeing others succeed because it highlights their own failures.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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moneyisking

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hey wait, this thread kind of reminds me of past thread where a guy was complaining that his roommate was bringing in his ex-chick to the room, so he asked SS advice what to do. Everyone told him to kick his ass or move out, or make him move out, but I think this will be hilarious if the writer of the thread is actually THAT roommate
 

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Smile at the haters and shake their dirt off your shoulder as that old Jay Z song goes.

Normally I can't stand Jay Z but he makes a good point with that song. :up:
 

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Smile at him and let him speak.. then nod and say "I know.. but I know why I still like her though... I must be mad." .. "come on I'll show you this new video on youtube"

^^ That's how you deal with a roomie.
 

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If you don't have haters, you're mediocre.

Give yourself a pat on the back. :)
 

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Awesome, thanks fellas for your advice. At this point, I just plan not to talk to him much. I'm totally cool with my other roommates, its just him. He have a huge ego, he thinks a lot of stuff is homo or gay, he brings home like unattractive 4.5-5 girls. And, he thinks a freshman and a senior dating is WRONG, and takes no skills.

Well overall, screw this bull****. I'm living the finest year of my college career. I tend to run into guys that hates on me when it comes to girls. AGAIN, good looking out fellas. Wish you guys best of luck, and game on. ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Good for you man. If you get hated on, it usually means you're doing something RIGHT! Their hate is a testament to your GAME! Play on, playa!
 

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Your_Royal_Flyness said:
Good for you man. If you get hated on, it usually means you're doing something RIGHT! Their hate is a testament to your GAME! Play on, playa!
Hatas make you famous! Clown their ass! Rep for you!
 
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