"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just got a 7.5 cutie, LOTS of people hating..

aznxboi

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Wassup fellas,

Here is the catch My girlfriend and I almost been dating for 2 months now. She 18, and I'm turning 21 soon. One of my roommate always give me sh*t, saying how she a freshman and I'm a senior. And, basically saying how easy she is to get with. Well, This guy is the typical jock, he works out everyday. But gets rejected left and right. He just got shot down for several jobs he applied to, rejected to pledge of a fraternity, and bring like ugly girls over (4 or 5).

I have no idea how to deal with this kinda bullsh*t, since he is my roommate and all. And, I don't want my girlfriend to get involve in this, since she comes over every now and then. How will you deal with this DJs?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cashew

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Ignore it and shrug it off. He's probably jealous.
 

moneyisking

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Nice, I am happy that fellow DJs are getting success from this site, b/c I know then I will develop b/c of it too.

To me this is more of man question. I guess you need to look at it with moderation. If he just mildly jokes around and talk little **** here and there, then it's fine to ignore, but if you get this feeling that he's really doing it to piss you and your GF and go way overboard, then by all means kicking his ass sounds the best option.
 

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The only one who has a problem is your roommate so its his problem. When he sees you with a nice girl it only bring home the reality that he can't get any. As I said its his problem not yours.


Do not let his behaviour make your mood more negative. Whenever he says anything bad about your relationship remember that its just his own insecurities coming out. You could point that out to him but theres no need because what he says shouldn't effect you in the slightest.


Insecure people don't like seeing others succeed because it highlights their own failures.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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moneyisking

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hey wait, this thread kind of reminds me of past thread where a guy was complaining that his roommate was bringing in his ex-chick to the room, so he asked SS advice what to do. Everyone told him to kick his ass or move out, or make him move out, but I think this will be hilarious if the writer of the thread is actually THAT roommate
 

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Smile at the haters and shake their dirt off your shoulder as that old Jay Z song goes.

Normally I can't stand Jay Z but he makes a good point with that song. :up:
 

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Smile at him and let him speak.. then nod and say "I know.. but I know why I still like her though... I must be mad." .. "come on I'll show you this new video on youtube"

^^ That's how you deal with a roomie.
 

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If you don't have haters, you're mediocre.

Give yourself a pat on the back. :)
 

aznxboi

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Awesome, thanks fellas for your advice. At this point, I just plan not to talk to him much. I'm totally cool with my other roommates, its just him. He have a huge ego, he thinks a lot of stuff is homo or gay, he brings home like unattractive 4.5-5 girls. And, he thinks a freshman and a senior dating is WRONG, and takes no skills.

Well overall, screw this bull****. I'm living the finest year of my college career. I tend to run into guys that hates on me when it comes to girls. AGAIN, good looking out fellas. Wish you guys best of luck, and game on. ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Good for you man. If you get hated on, it usually means you're doing something RIGHT! Their hate is a testament to your GAME! Play on, playa!
 

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Your_Royal_Flyness said:
Good for you man. If you get hated on, it usually means you're doing something RIGHT! Their hate is a testament to your GAME! Play on, playa!
Hatas make you famous! Clown their ass! Rep for you!
 
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