I have been talking to this girl for about 3 weeks. she is givin me all the signs she wants me.. she calls all the time and wants to hang out all the time I find out today that she has a B/f. she is 16yr I am 20yr so I have a huge advantage on the current boyfriend... I am thinkin of making her EXTREAMLY Jelous by pimpin some other girls and letting her hear of it. I would like to hook up with her but not sure on how to handle the matter. Do I let her know that I know she has a B/F?? Maybe tell her somthing like I was interested in you but u got a B/f. and ignore the hell out of her?? any Ideas would b nice thanks Dj's
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Just found out she has a B/f
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
I posted recently in Djdiscussion on a topic similar to this.
Do you really want her to dump her b/f and come running to you? Personally that'd turn me right off, because if she can dump him if she finds someone "new", so to speak, then whats to stop her doing it to you?
Do you really want her to dump her b/f and come running to you? Personally that'd turn me right off, because if she can dump him if she finds someone "new", so to speak, then whats to stop her doing it to you?
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did u say 16yrs old?
is that jail bait where u are from?
if not..... read on:
if u found out she had a bf without her telling u, your in.
if she is the one who mentioned it, the game just got alot harder for u man and u better amp up the IL.
is that jail bait where u are from?
if not..... read on:
if u found out she had a bf without her telling u, your in.
if she is the one who mentioned it, the game just got alot harder for u man and u better amp up the IL.
Ahh it doesnt bother me that she might cheat. Because if she got me she couldn't do any better, and will stay. As for jail Bait she is mature and is a senior in H/s hopfully the law wont mind lol. I found out she had a B/f threw Xanga online Diary. Her B/f is a total AFC. They have been dating for 3 weeks and he is saying 'LOVE" so he is screwed.. any ideas do I give her more attention or less and do i mention that i know about the b/f??
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
Except that the law doesn't care how mature she is. Are you willing to take that risk?
As long as you're ok with the legal backlash from this thing, here's the basic format for stealing a girl from her boyfriend.
1.) Develop rapport so that it's normal for the two of you to hang out alone together.
2.) Get her constantly laughing by busting her balls
3.) Treat her like a girl that doesn't have a boyfriend. Don't let the fact that she's taken phase you and if he's brought up act indifferent. Don't go out of your way to make fun of him because then you look weak.
When the time's right, take it to the next level. Use your instincts.
1.) Develop rapport so that it's normal for the two of you to hang out alone together.
2.) Get her constantly laughing by busting her balls
3.) Treat her like a girl that doesn't have a boyfriend. Don't let the fact that she's taken phase you and if he's brought up act indifferent. Don't go out of your way to make fun of him because then you look weak.
When the time's right, take it to the next level. Use your instincts.
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Put her in your farm system.