I have been talking to this girl for about 3 weeks. she is givin me all the signs she wants me.. she calls all the time and wants to hang out all the time I find out today that she has a B/f. she is 16yr I am 20yr so I have a huge advantage on the current boyfriend... I am thinkin of making her EXTREAMLY Jelous by pimpin some other girls and letting her hear of it. I would like to hook up with her but not sure on how to handle the matter. Do I let her know that I know she has a B/F?? Maybe tell her somthing like I was interested in you but u got a B/f. and ignore the hell out of her?? any Ideas would b nice thanks Dj's
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Just found out she has a B/f
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
I posted recently in Djdiscussion on a topic similar to this.
Do you really want her to dump her b/f and come running to you? Personally that'd turn me right off, because if she can dump him if she finds someone "new", so to speak, then whats to stop her doing it to you?
Do you really want her to dump her b/f and come running to you? Personally that'd turn me right off, because if she can dump him if she finds someone "new", so to speak, then whats to stop her doing it to you?
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did u say 16yrs old?
is that jail bait where u are from?
if not..... read on:
if u found out she had a bf without her telling u, your in.
if she is the one who mentioned it, the game just got alot harder for u man and u better amp up the IL.
is that jail bait where u are from?
if not..... read on:
if u found out she had a bf without her telling u, your in.
if she is the one who mentioned it, the game just got alot harder for u man and u better amp up the IL.
Ahh it doesnt bother me that she might cheat. Because if she got me she couldn't do any better, and will stay. As for jail Bait she is mature and is a senior in H/s hopfully the law wont mind lol. I found out she had a B/f threw Xanga online Diary. Her B/f is a total AFC. They have been dating for 3 weeks and he is saying 'LOVE" so he is screwed.. any ideas do I give her more attention or less and do i mention that i know about the b/f??
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
Except that the law doesn't care how mature she is. Are you willing to take that risk?
As long as you're ok with the legal backlash from this thing, here's the basic format for stealing a girl from her boyfriend.
1.) Develop rapport so that it's normal for the two of you to hang out alone together.
2.) Get her constantly laughing by busting her balls
3.) Treat her like a girl that doesn't have a boyfriend. Don't let the fact that she's taken phase you and if he's brought up act indifferent. Don't go out of your way to make fun of him because then you look weak.
When the time's right, take it to the next level. Use your instincts.
1.) Develop rapport so that it's normal for the two of you to hang out alone together.
2.) Get her constantly laughing by busting her balls
3.) Treat her like a girl that doesn't have a boyfriend. Don't let the fact that she's taken phase you and if he's brought up act indifferent. Don't go out of your way to make fun of him because then you look weak.
When the time's right, take it to the next level. Use your instincts.
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Put her in your farm system.