"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Just found out she has a B/f

zx2not4u

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I have been talking to this girl for about 3 weeks. she is givin me all the signs she wants me.. she calls all the time and wants to hang out all the time I find out today that she has a B/f. she is 16yr I am 20yr so I have a huge advantage on the current boyfriend... I am thinkin of making her EXTREAMLY Jelous by pimpin some other girls and letting her hear of it. I would like to hook up with her but not sure on how to handle the matter. Do I let her know that I know she has a B/F?? Maybe tell her somthing like I was interested in you but u got a B/f. and ignore the hell out of her?? any Ideas would b nice thanks Dj's
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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arutha

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Don't tell her you know she has a bf.. Never mention the bf. Thats all I can really offer.
 

WesCottII

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I posted recently in Djdiscussion on a topic similar to this.

Do you really want her to dump her b/f and come running to you? Personally that'd turn me right off, because if she can dump him if she finds someone "new", so to speak, then whats to stop her doing it to you?
 

Evangenlion

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did u say 16yrs old?

is that jail bait where u are from?

if not..... read on:

if u found out she had a bf without her telling u, your in.
if she is the one who mentioned it, the game just got alot harder for u man and u better amp up the IL.
 

zx2not4u

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Ahh it doesnt bother me that she might cheat. Because if she got me she couldn't do any better, and will stay. As for jail Bait she is mature and is a senior in H/s hopfully the law wont mind lol. I found out she had a B/f threw Xanga online Diary. Her B/f is a total AFC. They have been dating for 3 weeks and he is saying 'LOVE" so he is screwed.. any ideas do I give her more attention or less and do i mention that i know about the b/f??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NYC Dude

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Except that the law doesn't care how mature she is. Are you willing to take that risk?
 

RipItOff

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As long as you're ok with the legal backlash from this thing, here's the basic format for stealing a girl from her boyfriend.

1.) Develop rapport so that it's normal for the two of you to hang out alone together.

2.) Get her constantly laughing by busting her balls

3.) Treat her like a girl that doesn't have a boyfriend. Don't let the fact that she's taken phase you and if he's brought up act indifferent. Don't go out of your way to make fun of him because then you look weak.

When the time's right, take it to the next level. Use your instincts.
 

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SHE IS JAILBAIT.
 
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