I have been talking to this girl for about 3 weeks. she is givin me all the signs she wants me.. she calls all the time and wants to hang out all the time I find out today that she has a B/f. she is 16yr I am 20yr so I have a huge advantage on the current boyfriend... I am thinkin of making her EXTREAMLY Jelous by pimpin some other girls and letting her hear of it. I would like to hook up with her but not sure on how to handle the matter. Do I let her know that I know she has a B/F?? Maybe tell her somthing like I was interested in you but u got a B/f. and ignore the hell out of her?? any Ideas would b nice thanks Dj's
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Just found out she has a B/f
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
I posted recently in Djdiscussion on a topic similar to this.
Do you really want her to dump her b/f and come running to you? Personally that'd turn me right off, because if she can dump him if she finds someone "new", so to speak, then whats to stop her doing it to you?
Do you really want her to dump her b/f and come running to you? Personally that'd turn me right off, because if she can dump him if she finds someone "new", so to speak, then whats to stop her doing it to you?
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did u say 16yrs old?
is that jail bait where u are from?
if not..... read on:
if u found out she had a bf without her telling u, your in.
if she is the one who mentioned it, the game just got alot harder for u man and u better amp up the IL.
is that jail bait where u are from?
if not..... read on:
if u found out she had a bf without her telling u, your in.
if she is the one who mentioned it, the game just got alot harder for u man and u better amp up the IL.
Ahh it doesnt bother me that she might cheat. Because if she got me she couldn't do any better, and will stay. As for jail Bait she is mature and is a senior in H/s hopfully the law wont mind lol. I found out she had a B/f threw Xanga online Diary. Her B/f is a total AFC. They have been dating for 3 weeks and he is saying 'LOVE" so he is screwed.. any ideas do I give her more attention or less and do i mention that i know about the b/f??
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
NYC Dude
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Except that the law doesn't care how mature she is. Are you willing to take that risk?
As long as you're ok with the legal backlash from this thing, here's the basic format for stealing a girl from her boyfriend.
1.) Develop rapport so that it's normal for the two of you to hang out alone together.
2.) Get her constantly laughing by busting her balls
3.) Treat her like a girl that doesn't have a boyfriend. Don't let the fact that she's taken phase you and if he's brought up act indifferent. Don't go out of your way to make fun of him because then you look weak.
When the time's right, take it to the next level. Use your instincts.
1.) Develop rapport so that it's normal for the two of you to hang out alone together.
2.) Get her constantly laughing by busting her balls
3.) Treat her like a girl that doesn't have a boyfriend. Don't let the fact that she's taken phase you and if he's brought up act indifferent. Don't go out of your way to make fun of him because then you look weak.
When the time's right, take it to the next level. Use your instincts.
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Put her in your farm system.