"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just diff opinions of you guys what do you do when you have a girl come over?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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if she is coming over for dinner/movie i start by giving her a tour of the house. Maybe a quick tour of my property (i have an epic 15 acre mountain spread with woods, pasture, pond etc). Start cooking dinner, give her some prep work to do, work in kino and joking while cooking, eat dinner, put in movie, have her lean on me start watching movie, kino more, makeout, escalate.
 
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1.) Cook Dinner - Something simple that you cant possibly fvck up. Just make pasta and chicken or something. Dont risk fvcking up a rare cut of steak or something. *ALCOHOL TOO!!!* (Wine)

2.) Throw movie on......bring wine if not finished. Escalate.

3.) Sex

Its a wrap son....
 
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For me it starts before she comes over. I clean up the place well. Especially the bathroom, toilet, kitchen, room...fck it the whole place, make sure I stash anything embarrassing. Spray my fav and most worn cologne (just a few puffs) around my place to keep that scent she first smelled off me going. Lounge/house music in low volume. Then I'm set.

When she's over, I'm usually always in a good mood and spewing positive energy. Crack a few jokes and then a few strategic questions here and there. That lets her run her mouth, pretend I'm interested and look her dead in the eyes and smile here and there the whole time. Then I kino. And from there I'm set. And oh yea, I don't forget to keep a condom (not a whole pack, that's visible obviously) in my pocket. Sometimes I can't believe how fast they get turned off while scrapping around looking for it.
 
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