"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just diff opinions of you guys what do you do when you have a girl come over?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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if she is coming over for dinner/movie i start by giving her a tour of the house. Maybe a quick tour of my property (i have an epic 15 acre mountain spread with woods, pasture, pond etc). Start cooking dinner, give her some prep work to do, work in kino and joking while cooking, eat dinner, put in movie, have her lean on me start watching movie, kino more, makeout, escalate.
 
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1.) Cook Dinner - Something simple that you cant possibly fvck up. Just make pasta and chicken or something. Dont risk fvcking up a rare cut of steak or something. *ALCOHOL TOO!!!* (Wine)

2.) Throw movie on......bring wine if not finished. Escalate.

3.) Sex

Its a wrap son....
 
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For me it starts before she comes over. I clean up the place well. Especially the bathroom, toilet, kitchen, room...fck it the whole place, make sure I stash anything embarrassing. Spray my fav and most worn cologne (just a few puffs) around my place to keep that scent she first smelled off me going. Lounge/house music in low volume. Then I'm set.

When she's over, I'm usually always in a good mood and spewing positive energy. Crack a few jokes and then a few strategic questions here and there. That lets her run her mouth, pretend I'm interested and look her dead in the eyes and smile here and there the whole time. Then I kino. And from there I'm set. And oh yea, I don't forget to keep a condom (not a whole pack, that's visible obviously) in my pocket. Sometimes I can't believe how fast they get turned off while scrapping around looking for it.
 
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