"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just diff opinions of you guys what do you do when you have a girl come over?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MtnMan

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if she is coming over for dinner/movie i start by giving her a tour of the house. Maybe a quick tour of my property (i have an epic 15 acre mountain spread with woods, pasture, pond etc). Start cooking dinner, give her some prep work to do, work in kino and joking while cooking, eat dinner, put in movie, have her lean on me start watching movie, kino more, makeout, escalate.
 

TheException

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1.) Cook Dinner - Something simple that you cant possibly fvck up. Just make pasta and chicken or something. Dont risk fvcking up a rare cut of steak or something. *ALCOHOL TOO!!!* (Wine)

2.) Throw movie on......bring wine if not finished. Escalate.

3.) Sex

Its a wrap son....
 

beatjunkie

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For me it starts before she comes over. I clean up the place well. Especially the bathroom, toilet, kitchen, room...fck it the whole place, make sure I stash anything embarrassing. Spray my fav and most worn cologne (just a few puffs) around my place to keep that scent she first smelled off me going. Lounge/house music in low volume. Then I'm set.

When she's over, I'm usually always in a good mood and spewing positive energy. Crack a few jokes and then a few strategic questions here and there. That lets her run her mouth, pretend I'm interested and look her dead in the eyes and smile here and there the whole time. Then I kino. And from there I'm set. And oh yea, I don't forget to keep a condom (not a whole pack, that's visible obviously) in my pocket. Sometimes I can't believe how fast they get turned off while scrapping around looking for it.
 
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