Just can's get over her...WHY ??!!!

[yogy]

So here is my problem.
About 2-3 weeks ago I broke up with my LTR (5-6 month relationship).AND I STILL CAN'T GET OVER HER :trouble:
I have a very busy/full life:I love my job,go out with friends almost every night,have 2 girls (that I fVck) and tomorrow a date with the third one...so as you can see I am very busy.
And the fact is that that I don't really liked my LTR physicaly,but we had a lot things in common (music,ideas,life style...).
So what to do??? I had some nights when couldn't sleep thinking about her

PS: she wanted to remain "friends" :crazy: and I am not that kind of guy .So now she sends me messages (1-2 times a week) with "how are you?","everything ok ?"....

if you want more details just ask

 

[kabatura]

Break off all communication with her. Are you emotionally attracted to these girls,?

 

[yogy]

Break off all communication with her

So just let her message me and don't answer?Ok,no problem
But the problem is that we go to the same clubs

Are you emotionally attracted to these girls,?

Not with actual girls and I don't want to be.

 

[Obsidian]

it'll probably take a couple months before you're really over her. In the meantime, tho, definitely work on it by spinning plates and living your life. And yeah, don't text; that's lame.

 

[kabatura]

It's going to make it tough seeing her at clubs. If she filled an emotional gap and no other girl is doing it, you are going to default to her whenever you think of a girl in an emotional way. You may get to where you arent bothered by it but unless someone else gives you what she gave you, she will be the representation of that feeling, and unfortunately, that representation is a painful one. I hope that makes sense

 

[DonJuan11]

So here is my problem.
About 2-3 weeks ago I broke up with my LTR (5-6 month relationship).AND I STILL CAN'T GET OVER HER :trouble:
I have a very busy/full life:I love my job,go out with friends almost every night,have 2 girls (that I fVck) and tomorrow a date with the third one...so as you can see I am very busy.
And the fact is that that I don't really liked my LTR physicaly,but we had a lot things in common (music,ideas,life style...).
So what to do??? I had some nights when couldn't sleep thinking about her

PS: she wanted to remain "friends" :crazy: and I am not that kind of guy .So now she sends me messages (1-2 times a week) with "how are you?","everything ok ?"....

Man are we spolied.

 

[JLW]

It took me 3-4 months to get over my 10 month LTR

And its not like I hadn't hooked up with other girls etc.

Sometimes its just rough.

 

[SomeKindaHate]

I've been in this situation twice before. It's definitely a horrible feeling and the first few days is the worst. I thought I was never going to get over my ex, thought it would be years. But after a few days, plus a weekend out with friends, those feelings drastically went away.

Of course you'll get over it. It's great to stay busy, but there is that 10-20 minutes where you're alone thinking of your ex. Just try to block it out and think of all the of single girls out there who are wife material.

 

[yogy]

Thanks guys for support.
I hope I'll get over it fast.I don't like this feeling,specially when everything else is going so well.