"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Just can's get over her...WHY ??!!!

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So here is my problem.
About 2-3 weeks ago I broke up with my LTR (5-6 month relationship).AND I STILL CAN'T GET OVER HER :trouble:
I have a very busy/full life:I love my job,go out with friends almost every night,have 2 girls (that I fVck) and tomorrow a date with the third one...so as you can see I am very busy.
And the fact is that that I don't really liked my LTR physicaly,but we had a lot things in common (music,ideas,life style...).
So what to do??? I had some nights when couldn't sleep thinking about her :eek:

PS: she wanted to remain "friends" :crazy: and I am not that kind of guy :).So now she sends me messages (1-2 times a week) with "how are you?","everything ok ?"....

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Break off all communication with her. Are you emotionally attracted to these girls,?
 
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Break off all communication with her
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So just let her message me and don't answer?Ok,no problem :D
But the problem is that we go to the same clubs :confused:

Are you emotionally attracted to these girls,?
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Not with actual girls and I don't want to be.
 
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it'll probably take a couple months before you're really over her. In the meantime, tho, definitely work on it by spinning plates and living your life. And yeah, don't text; that's lame.
 
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It's going to make it tough seeing her at clubs. If she filled an emotional gap and no other girl is doing it, you are going to default to her whenever you think of a girl in an emotional way. You may get to where you arent bothered by it but unless someone else gives you what she gave you, she will be the representation of that feeling, and unfortunately, that representation is a painful one. I hope that makes sense
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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yogy said:
So here is my problem.
About 2-3 weeks ago I broke up with my LTR (5-6 month relationship).AND I STILL CAN'T GET OVER HER :trouble:
I have a very busy/full life:I love my job,go out with friends almost every night,have 2 girls (that I fVck) and tomorrow a date with the third one...so as you can see I am very busy.
And the fact is that that I don't really liked my LTR physicaly,but we had a lot things in common (music,ideas,life style...).
So what to do??? I had some nights when couldn't sleep thinking about her :eek:

PS: she wanted to remain "friends" :crazy: and I am not that kind of guy :).So now she sends me messages (1-2 times a week) with "how are you?","everything ok ?"....
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Man are we spolied.
 
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It took me 3-4 months to get over my 10 month LTR

And its not like I hadn't hooked up with other girls etc.

Sometimes its just rough.
 
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I've been in this situation twice before. It's definitely a horrible feeling and the first few days is the worst. I thought I was never going to get over my ex, thought it would be years. But after a few days, plus a weekend out with friends, those feelings drastically went away.

Of course you'll get over it. It's great to stay busy, but there is that 10-20 minutes where you're alone thinking of your ex. Just try to block it out and think of all the of single girls out there who are wife material.
 
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Thanks guys for support.
I hope I'll get over it fast.I don't like this feeling,specially when everything else is going so well.
 
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