yes, the one who LJBF'ed me after 6 months of huge investments, hot and cold behavior and limited reward from her side. At the time she told me she wasn't over her ex (of course after having benefitted of my time and effort) and that I was awesome and she always loved to think about me and her together (yes, words, only words...). At that time I said "**** it" and went NC, now I tested myself and... my "i don't give a ****" attitude annoyed her a lot, she quickly escaped without saying anything apart "I need to go, I've a urgent meeting". But come on! i was really polite and nice with my smile :cheer: .. as I would be with any other girl. Now I feel empowered, thanks guys, lot of awesome material here, Brad lessons helped me a lot
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
just bumped into my oneitis.. thanks Sosuave (especially Bradd80)
- Thread starter joker79
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Prodigy746
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I am sorry op but you dont make much sense.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I wouldn't reply. She'll most likely start playing games again if you respond.joker79 said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Bradd is one of the few that gives really good and practical advice.